Who is the prize!

[Cougar10033]

I dont know if its because im becoming older and more wiser but im noticing that MOST girls are exactly the same. They all want the same things desire the same things and act the same way. It seems that they are becoming more and more shallow every year. I recently went to a mall with my gf and observed girl after girl walk by me with a cell phone in her ear, carrying a coach purse, wearing abercrombie, make up plastered all over them and wearing sunglasses meant for someone with a head 5 times their size. I sat in amazement as one after the other walked by.. like an army of zombies. I realized years ago that women are not the prize but guys are the prize. Lets look at the facts...

MOST females have no desire or aspiration to work or to have a solid career.
They do not have any concept of saving money, IE they will spend every dime they have if someone doesnt tell them to stop.. buying any piece of designer clothing they can find.

They have to spend hours making themselves pretty... they spend so much time focusing on their physical appearence that they forget to develope their personality and thus we see the zombies walking around the malls and coffee shops.
Most woman are are not logical they will throw out anything worth value to them based on feelings and emotion, they act first then rationalize later.

So to most of you new guys that just came to this site ask yourself... how and why would you want to chase after something with no personality, no goals or real desires, how can you possibly interact with these clones without getting extremly frustrated everytime her cellphone rings in the middle of your convo just so her friend can tell her about the newest sale at neimen marcus. You CANT !!! You can have fun with them.. practice on them.. do what you want but you must realize your the one worth having not them. Now there are Great girls out there but they will only be drawn to you if you have that confidence that you are the prize.

 

[belividere]

That is good stuff.

 

[I-am-someone]

Cougar...

This is perhaps your view of women...
However, this image you describe is actually a very shallow image. You are judging those women purely on their looks, while you have never spoken to them all.
Many of them may look alike on the outside, because that's just the way this world works... However, the inner workings of all of those girls are going to be completely different.

What you've basically done in this post, is show us how you see women around you.
I tend to prefer seeing things in a more relative perspective, and with that I also recognize the fact that each individual is unique. Each individual has it's own views, beliefs and values that may or may not match to our own.
Every woman can be a completely different match, mentally and physically.

The point behind your post is valid.
I very much believe that men are in fact the prize.
However, the views of modern women associated with this post are not at all valid to me.

 

[Cougar10033]

I am someone- I am not posting this based soley on observations i have spoken/dated/hooked up with many of these girls. I used the word MOST thru out the post to indicate that there are girls out there that do not fit into my zombie classification. I have dated about 20 girls since i graduated college 2 years ago and i would say that 90 percent of them fall into that catergory. They were obsessed with materialistic things/physical appearence and modern culture. I have a great personality and am very outgoing yet to these types of girls it didnt matter... they constantly refered to me as being hot/ eye candy/ sexy and so on... which has me convinced that to these girls any inner quality someone has will not even be noticed. They lived for the moment and they were are unlogical. My above post is based on experiences i have had modern girls. I am not trying to bash nor say that every girl fits into this category. I am saying that they all for the most part have the same values and beliefs which can be used to your advantage.

 

[Natch]

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