"Who IS that guy"....exactly what you want to hear.

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

NeverFear

Don Juan

Aug 31, 2005

Ever heard a woman utter these words: Who IS that guy?

I have. When she says it you can tell that the guy she's talking about has gotten her attention, challenged her, shown control, and achieved the final building block in interest level: MYSTERY.

She knows the guy, and likes what she sees, but she admits that because he doesnt blab, and is scarce, she DOESN'T really know him.

Do the women you date say it about you? They should be.

You should be challenging and confident, but also so different and mysterious that she ALWAYS wants to know more about you than you let her to.

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.