"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who is stronger?

Solja J

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Is the man who resist the temptations of sex stronger than the man who gives in, and gets a disease or a girl pregnant? Does the man who resist have more will power than the one who falls for the temptation? Is the man who cheats on his girl stronger than the one who does not? No! the ones who give in to the temptations of this world are weaklings. Do not be a weakling have more self-control and strength! This strength can make a girl il for you go way up!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is the man who resist the temptations of sex stronger than the man who gives in, and gets a disease or a girl pregnant? Does the man who resist have more will power than the one who falls for the temptation? Is the man who cheats on his girl stronger than the one who does not? No! the ones who give in to the temptations of this world are weaklings. Do not be a weakling have more self-control and strength! This strength can make a girl il for you go way up!
No, no,no. Temptations of sex, so what, are they wrong, thats why there is this term called safe sex. Temptations of this world are weaklings - so to be sttrong i should starve myself to death, not give in to the wordly cooncerns of the body or the mind. Put myself above it. Jesus christ, boy.

Strength is just one aspect, but true can make a gals interest level go up, but its not strength, if its done for that purpose.
 

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The safest sex is no sex until marriage. Do you have the will power to wait that long? True it's not strength if done for that purpose.
 

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Actually the safest sex is no sex ever, in terms of getting a girl pregnant or catching an STD, not even in marraige
 

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heh There isn't much that self-control in the world for no sex ever lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've gone 15 and a half years without sex, I don't see why I couldn't go the rest of my life without it.

Who is stronger? depends who you ask. If you want to post a tip, back up your argument. It's wonderful for you to tell us who you think is stronger but WHY and HOW do you become that strong?
 

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sex

there is nothing wrong with sex. it can really help relationships. sure there is that 0.009 percent chance of getting a girl pregnant even on birth control but you shouldn't let that ruin your sex life. my girls on the pill i bust in her every time, we do it about 3 times a week and intervals of 5. from what i've seen the pill works pretty well

as for stds, just make sure you don't get with a hoe.
 

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Whoa 3 times a week! Likretsam I guess we are in the minority here then....
 

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If you're actually in bed with a naked girl with her legs spread open and tell her you don't want to **** because you're saving yourself for marriage, then yea, that's strength. But if you're not getting any and you just tell people you're saving yourself for marriage, that's *****.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dang Twice!
 

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Be Strong!
 
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