"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who is stronger?

Solja J

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Is the man who resist the temptations of sex stronger than the man who gives in, and gets a disease or a girl pregnant? Does the man who resist have more will power than the one who falls for the temptation? Is the man who cheats on his girl stronger than the one who does not? No! the ones who give in to the temptations of this world are weaklings. Do not be a weakling have more self-control and strength! This strength can make a girl il for you go way up!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is the man who resist the temptations of sex stronger than the man who gives in, and gets a disease or a girl pregnant? Does the man who resist have more will power than the one who falls for the temptation? Is the man who cheats on his girl stronger than the one who does not? No! the ones who give in to the temptations of this world are weaklings. Do not be a weakling have more self-control and strength! This strength can make a girl il for you go way up!
No, no,no. Temptations of sex, so what, are they wrong, thats why there is this term called safe sex. Temptations of this world are weaklings - so to be sttrong i should starve myself to death, not give in to the wordly cooncerns of the body or the mind. Put myself above it. Jesus christ, boy.

Strength is just one aspect, but true can make a gals interest level go up, but its not strength, if its done for that purpose.
 

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The safest sex is no sex until marriage. Do you have the will power to wait that long? True it's not strength if done for that purpose.
 

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Actually the safest sex is no sex ever, in terms of getting a girl pregnant or catching an STD, not even in marraige
 

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heh There isn't much that self-control in the world for no sex ever lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I've gone 15 and a half years without sex, I don't see why I couldn't go the rest of my life without it.

Who is stronger? depends who you ask. If you want to post a tip, back up your argument. It's wonderful for you to tell us who you think is stronger but WHY and HOW do you become that strong?
 

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sex

there is nothing wrong with sex. it can really help relationships. sure there is that 0.009 percent chance of getting a girl pregnant even on birth control but you shouldn't let that ruin your sex life. my girls on the pill i bust in her every time, we do it about 3 times a week and intervals of 5. from what i've seen the pill works pretty well

as for stds, just make sure you don't get with a hoe.
 

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Whoa 3 times a week! Likretsam I guess we are in the minority here then....
 

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If you're actually in bed with a naked girl with her legs spread open and tell her you don't want to **** because you're saving yourself for marriage, then yea, that's strength. But if you're not getting any and you just tell people you're saving yourself for marriage, that's *****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dang Twice!
 

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Be Strong!
 
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