Who is right?

[KRUT]

Me and my brother had a little argument. A couple of days ago I took a girl I know to the movies. When I came home my brother asked me if I paid for her ticket. I said: "No she paid for herself and I didn't stop her". Than he said something like: "Why? She is going to think you are only interested in her as a friend. If you pay for her she will think it's a date." I said: "You are not going to buy a girl's affection with a free movie ticket."

Personally I like when the girl offers to pay for herself that tells to me she is interested in spending time with me and not just in a free movie or a dinner.

I am pretty sure I already know the answer but who do you think is right?

 

[Snowman23]

ZOOOOOMG!!!! Good thing you DIDN'T pay for her ticket dude. She would have dropped you like a bad habit, and told ALL her friends what a wet pvssy you were!

 

[donjuanapprentice01]

This one chick put me through a **** test back in my AFC days. She seemed to be interested in me. Anyways, we went to see a movie, she came along. As I was standing in line at the movie theatre, she told me she had no money on her and if I could grab her ticket. Like the dildo that I was I paid. I didn't even get a thank you, and the LJBF speech came right after. I knew I got **** tested and I failed with a capital F.

Good for you for not paying, you should only start paying for a girl after you get a couple dates under your belt.

 

[Ice882]

I just paid for a girl's movie ticket last night and it was no big deal. I just did it without any fuss. No asking no being a ***** just going up to the counter and saying two tickets to the proposal please and getting them. She was like did you just pay for me and I was like yeah lets go and we went in the theater.

And it didn't affect the result. We made out in the theater and I got head in my car.

 

[Cinamon]

As much as i prefer to pay for my own tickket, it is nice to be asked.

If he pays for the tickets then i get the popcorn and soda. There needs to be some balance.

 

[RFish]

Like Cinamon said that has to be some balance. If you pay for this time maybe next time round she pays?

But I don't get why you are worrying about such things, pay for it if you feel like and don't if you don't. I've to say generally not good to pay for.

donjuanapprentice01 is undergoing a special case. You have to come to sense you didn't get the LJBF just because you pay for it. You gotten it much earlier because somewhere you screw up and LJBF is just unsaid. You fail to keep her attracted via so many aspects so do not blame a pair of movie tickets for that. No offense.

If she intentionally makes you pay knowing you are her source of free entertainment and takes you out for a ride then that is not a good thing.

 

[Hughman]

I just paid for a girl's movie ticket last night and it was no big deal. I just did it without any fuss. No asking no being a ***** just going up to the counter and saying two tickets to the proposal please and getting them. She was like did you just pay for me and I was like yeah lets go and we went in the theater.

And it didn't affect the result. We made out in the theater and I got head in my car.

And this is what you did differently to every other guy. You didn't need permission. You simply did it. Ergo, you are confident, forward and also 'sweet'.

 

[Interceptor]

If you INVITE her, that means YOU pay.

 

[DavenJuan]

Me and my brother had a little argument. A couple of days ago I took a girl I know to the movies. When I came home my brother asked me if I paid for her ticket. I said: "No she paid for herself and I didn't stop her". Than he said something like: "Why? She is going to think you are only interested in her as a friend. If you pay for her she will think it's a date." I said: "You are not going to buy a girl's affection with a free movie ticket."

Personally I like when the girl offers to pay for herself that tells to me she is interested in spending time with me and not just in a free movie or a dinner.

I am pretty sure I already know the answer but who do you think is right?

im assuming you ASKED HER to go to the movies. in that case than yeah, maybe you should have paid. just like if she were to ask you, then i would assume she pays.. but at the end of the day...

who the fvck cares who pays..??

if you think that buying a tix vs. not buying is going to jeopordize putting you in the friendzone, then more than likely there is other things that TRUMPED the tix issue that put you their first, the tix would have been just the icing on the cake

trust me, there is NO clarfication needed on if you are just "friends" simply because she bought her own ticket, atleast it wont be if you make it clear to her this is not the case.