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Who is "intimidated by women that can pay their own bills"

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I found this feminist BS:

And most women do not want to choose a man based on his bank account. Their financial independence allows them to choose someone based on kindness, intelligence, ambition, humor, and loyalty. But here is the rub — most men are emasculated by the woman who can pay her own bills. They don’t want that independent woman.

What on earth is she talking about?

Why would a man see it as a disadvantage that she can pay her own bills? Does she think being a financial parasite is some kind of benefit to a man? Isn't being able to pay your own bills a basic expectation for everyone living in a prosperous western country these days? Not living in a cardboard box is hardly some kind of huge intimidating achievement.

I think the real reason that she's bringing this up is to avoid the harsh truth which is the real reason that men don't want her - because she's over 35. She thinks that her money or her career can compensate for the fact that she's hit the wall head first, but it can't. She thinks that because money attracts women it will also attract men. But we have our own jobs and our own careers, we're not looking for someone to pay our way in life (which most women wouldn't be willing to do anyway).

The reason successful men don't want her is because she's old. Successful men have choices, and they can date women that are younger and hotter. It's not that they are intimidated by her career or her money - they just don't care about it. It's irrelevant, because men (especially successful men) are not looking for women to look after them financially.
 

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Its her mind, trying to find an excuse why men pump and dump her.

By saying men are intimidated by her money, she doesnt have to face that men dont like her for being that "independent" bossy ***** that feels entitled to date 3 levels above her SMV (which is a 6 at best with 35) and comes along with a shopping list of demands on the man.
 

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Yeah I found it pretty difficult to find women who were "paying their bills" when I was dating. They were all deeply in debt, had huge credit issues, minimal income, etc and were typically looking for someone to take care of them. The idea that I'd somehow be "intimidated" by a woman with a good job and/or the ability to live within her means is nonsensical drivel feminists tell themselves when they can't figure out why they are all alone.
 

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Yeah I found it pretty difficult to find women who were "paying their bills" when I was dating. They were all deeply in debt, had huge credit issues, minimal income, etc and were typically looking for someone to take care of them. The idea that I'd somehow be "intimidated" by a woman with a good job and/or the ability to live within her means is nonsensical drivel feminists tell themselves when they can't figure out why they are all alone.
i've met women on 6 figure wages with no savings and debt. get the impression most spend what they earn with little restraint or future planning when it comes to finances.
 

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In this article referenced in another post:


I found this feminist BS:

And most women do not want to choose a man based on his bank account. Their financial independence allows them to choose someone based on kindness, intelligence, ambition, humor, and loyalty. But here is the rub — most men are emasculated by the woman who can pay her own bills. They don’t want that independent woman.

What on earth is she talking about?

Why would a man see it as a disadvantage that she can pay her own bills? Does she think being a financial parasite is some kind of benefit to a man? Isn't being able to pay your own bills a basic expectation for everyone living in a prosperous western country these days? Not living in a cardboard box is hardly some kind of huge intimidating achievement.

I think the real reason that she's bringing this up is to avoid the harsh truth which is the real reason that men don't want her - because she's over 35. She thinks that her money or her career can compensate for the fact that she's hit the wall head first, but it can't. She thinks that because money attracts women it will also attract men. But we have our own jobs and our own careers, we're not looking for someone to pay our way in life (which most women wouldn't be willing to do anyway).

The reason successful men don't want her is because she's old. Successful men have choices, and they can date women that are younger and hotter. It's not that they are intimidated by her career or her money - they just don't care about it. It's irrelevant, because men (especially successful men) are not looking for women to look after them financially.
To jaded and unwilling to please. Romance is burned out. A woman that takes pride in being able to write a check is not going to be attractive.
 

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I read that article and felt like I was a much more valuable commodity than I realized.

You fellas over 40 should read that and evaluate what you have to offer a woman.
 

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and one thing funny she says most educated woman have financial segurity... then pray tell me, why the hell these woman are always in debit?
 

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Making the excuse that men don't want a woman who can pay her own bills and is independent protects the woman's ego. The real reason no man wants a woman like this is because he constantly has to battle her. It's like being at work 24-7. These women don't understand the importance of following a man's lead.
 

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Making the excuse that men don't want a woman who can pay her own bills and is independent protects the woman's ego. The real reason no man wants a woman like this is because he constantly has to battle her. It's like being at work 24-7. These women don't understand the importance of following a man's lead.
Yes, women with money exist in 2 nuances, they are either consumers who spend utterly everything they make on their lifestyle or conservative who rely on men to fuel their lifestyle with the man's time; free repairs, maintenance, father figure role and she supports that man but expects every second of his time.
 

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In this article referenced in another post:


I found this feminist BS:

And most women do not want to choose a man based on his bank account. Their financial independence allows them to choose someone based on kindness, intelligence, ambition, humor, and loyalty. But here is the rub — most men are emasculated by the woman who can pay her own bills. They don’t want that independent woman.

What on earth is she talking about?

Why would a man see it as a disadvantage that she can pay her own bills? Does she think being a financial parasite is some kind of benefit to a man? Isn't being able to pay your own bills a basic expectation for everyone living in a prosperous western country these days? Not living in a cardboard box is hardly some kind of huge intimidating achievement.

I think the real reason that she's bringing this up is to avoid the harsh truth which is the real reason that men don't want her - because she's over 35. She thinks that her money or her career can compensate for the fact that she's hit the wall head first, but it can't. She thinks that because money attracts women it will also attract men. But we have our own jobs and our own careers, we're not looking for someone to pay our way in life (which most women wouldn't be willing to do anyway).

The reason successful men don't want her is because she's old. Successful men have choices, and they can date women that are younger and hotter. It's not that they are intimidated by her career or her money - they just don't care about it. It's irrelevant, because men (especially successful men) are not looking for women to look after them financially.
Interesting read, but all too common among 30+ single women.

Modern Man Advice
 

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Honestly, I prefer a female to pay her own bills. I hate spending money on things that produce no return. I also do not like people spending money on me either.
I agree. But women don't want to accept that it's their age, their weight or their looks that's the problem. So they claim that men are "intimidated" by how wonderful they are. It's just a coping mechanism to avoid facing the truth.

In fact they've got it arse backwards. The women that actually are attractive to men don't have to make any effort to work and develop a career etc because they know that they can skate through life on their looks. They can just pair up with a guy with money rather than spending their life working for it. However, even the dumbest bimbos know that it's game over at 30.
 
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