misterbigg
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aghh...
i'm new to this site, so don't yell at me too much...i've been reading the DJ bible, and a lot of other posts...they all tell me the same thing, but i want some verification so i can stop feeling like an a$hole.
basically this is my relationship with her.
I like her she seems to like me...she bails on date, 2 days later we fvck, she bails on another date (sick) but invites another guy over to her place who she insists is just a friend, 2 days later we fvck, she bails on another date, she tells me she isn't ready to date anyone, we fvck, she bails on another date, and 2 weeks later she is dating someone...yup...that other guy
she wants to remain friends...I'm pi$$ed off, but i'm open to the idea in-case something turns around, bf breaks up with her, she comes back to me, tells me she likes me, but heartbroken by the other guy, we go out a few times. i spend a lot of time over the next few weeks and really get to know her...she tells me how great and wonderful i am, then a few weeks late she reveals she is seeing someone else. I yell at the biatch for causing all this bullshyt, we have an argument, i tell her to fvck off because i am not interested in being just her friend (i like her). 2 months go by no contact, and then she chases me. i find out she is single again. She invites me out a few times, i'm a bit weary of it, but we get close, and ultimately our relationship is 100 times better than we first met. She is all over me, but i am playing it cool and don't make a move. she calls me, makes a big effort, everything is cool. Then she bails on plans, no phone call, nothing. She calls me a week later to apologize. we spend more time with each other, again she is all over me. the i get that wierd vibe again. oh yeah...she is dating someone. Tells me he is a great guy and i would really like him as a friend. huh?
the next day i call her and end my friendship with her...i tell her i can;t deal being the guy she constantly runs to when she is single, and that i am done...methinks i was da fallback guy for her, no?
then i find out she is also seeing ANOTHER guy...only because he is in my class...he dresses the same, talks the same, has the same attitude, AND his name is also misterbigg. Obviously that is not his REAL name, but his name is the same as mine. He has the same profession as me, except he is around 8 years older. That's fvckin' wierd.
she email me and i ignore it.
now...based on aaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the above bullshyt, i am going to guess that EVERYONE IS GOING TO SAY "YAY" to never speaking to this chick again.
YAY!
Problem is, part of me thinks i'm being stupid for not wanting to be her friend...
Just to confirm...even though her and i became "friends", she still treated me like shyt right? she still mesed with my head, knowing full-well how i felt about her right? I'm not a retard for not wanting to be friends with this chick right? Only reason why i am asking is because all my other friends (girls) tell me they think she likes me but just doesn't know it...i was there for her at all times, therefore she didn't have to risk "losing me" by keeping me on a s a friend...which is why she went for another guy or guy(s) as the case may be.
My friends tell me to not put any effort into her anymore, date other girls, but if she talks to me keep it cool and quick...small talk only. They don't think i should write her off COMPLETELY yet...
any advice, comments?
i'm new to this site, so don't yell at me too much...i've been reading the DJ bible, and a lot of other posts...they all tell me the same thing, but i want some verification so i can stop feeling like an a$hole.
basically this is my relationship with her.
I like her she seems to like me...she bails on date, 2 days later we fvck, she bails on another date (sick) but invites another guy over to her place who she insists is just a friend, 2 days later we fvck, she bails on another date, she tells me she isn't ready to date anyone, we fvck, she bails on another date, and 2 weeks later she is dating someone...yup...that other guy
she wants to remain friends...I'm pi$$ed off, but i'm open to the idea in-case something turns around, bf breaks up with her, she comes back to me, tells me she likes me, but heartbroken by the other guy, we go out a few times. i spend a lot of time over the next few weeks and really get to know her...she tells me how great and wonderful i am, then a few weeks late she reveals she is seeing someone else. I yell at the biatch for causing all this bullshyt, we have an argument, i tell her to fvck off because i am not interested in being just her friend (i like her). 2 months go by no contact, and then she chases me. i find out she is single again. She invites me out a few times, i'm a bit weary of it, but we get close, and ultimately our relationship is 100 times better than we first met. She is all over me, but i am playing it cool and don't make a move. she calls me, makes a big effort, everything is cool. Then she bails on plans, no phone call, nothing. She calls me a week later to apologize. we spend more time with each other, again she is all over me. the i get that wierd vibe again. oh yeah...she is dating someone. Tells me he is a great guy and i would really like him as a friend. huh?
the next day i call her and end my friendship with her...i tell her i can;t deal being the guy she constantly runs to when she is single, and that i am done...methinks i was da fallback guy for her, no?
then i find out she is also seeing ANOTHER guy...only because he is in my class...he dresses the same, talks the same, has the same attitude, AND his name is also misterbigg. Obviously that is not his REAL name, but his name is the same as mine. He has the same profession as me, except he is around 8 years older. That's fvckin' wierd.
she email me and i ignore it.
now...based on aaaaaaaaaallllllllllllllllllllllllllllll the above bullshyt, i am going to guess that EVERYONE IS GOING TO SAY "YAY" to never speaking to this chick again.
YAY!
Problem is, part of me thinks i'm being stupid for not wanting to be her friend...
Just to confirm...even though her and i became "friends", she still treated me like shyt right? she still mesed with my head, knowing full-well how i felt about her right? I'm not a retard for not wanting to be friends with this chick right? Only reason why i am asking is because all my other friends (girls) tell me they think she likes me but just doesn't know it...i was there for her at all times, therefore she didn't have to risk "losing me" by keeping me on a s a friend...which is why she went for another guy or guy(s) as the case may be.
My friends tell me to not put any effort into her anymore, date other girls, but if she talks to me keep it cool and quick...small talk only. They don't think i should write her off COMPLETELY yet...
any advice, comments?
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