“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who I use as a job reference

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Here's my problem: I currently work at an office job where my employer does not like me too well and I've been working here for about 6 months. I am planning on staying for a couple more months before quitting.

I guess I have 2 questions about going for a next job:
1) If I use references from older jobs (without including my most recent one that I'm quitting), would that be seen as strange?
2) If I leave after only working there for 8 months or so, would that be viewed as bad?

thanks
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I don't want to directly answer your question because I don't have extensive experience in job switching since I'm too young for that.

But once I was told by a headhunter that when you write your CV/résumé, don't let there be possibilities of doubt, don't let there be reasons for people to ask themselves questions.

Like "hey so there's this eight months blank, what happened? we don't know what this means. and why isn't he telling us anything about it on his CV/résumé" etc...

Questions and doubt are always bad she said. Sure during the potential interview, you can try to explain things or lie or whatever, but try to never leave a possibility of doubt on your CV/résumé.

Now with this being said, make up a decision by yourself. If you think people won't get suspicious about it, then you know what to do.
 

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Permission said:
I guess I have 2 questions about going for a next job:
1) If I use references from older jobs (without including my most recent one that I'm quitting), would that be seen as strange?
2) If I leave after only working there for 8 months or so, would that be viewed as bad?

thanks
1. You can use previous job references without a problem. If they ask, its because your current employer is unaware of your job search and you feel it might create some hostility if they found out. This happens a lot where job seekers don't want current boss to know. But you shouldn't mention anything unless they ask.

2. If you are young, even if you aren't, it is not unusual at all. If you do this for the next 5 years, then it will seem unusual, but a couple of job-hops is common these days.

Don't speak bad about your current employer but if you are matter of fact about it, the new company will get the picture.

good luck :up:
 
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