Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Fvck yeah. I fantasize about being a warrior in my ancestors' homeland. I figure I'd die sooner, but oh the life I'd live!I had a discussion in the other thread my guess is that most men would not like to live in the past.
Would you?
Let's say your time is randomly generated in the last 10k years
compared to being a random guy in the world or the west in current times.
Maybe it makes you understand other person's mind better. Seems there is quite a difference between the futurists and the ones liking the past.Thinking about this is delusional and a complete waste of time.
A virus is a living entity and so are we.Someday we'll be gone too. The human race is just a fart in the wind.
That’s a very good point about I.D.That would be a plus. And I wouldn't mind going into the not too distant path and be able to take advantage of what I know happens with the stock market. Sort of like Bif took advantage of his Sports Almanac in the second Back to the Future movie.
If I time traveled back though, there would be a question about identification, things like my social security number for example. I wouldn't want to start making big money and then catch the interest of the government and they find out I don't really exist in that time period and I end up locked up or something, not sure how that would work.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
They'd probably think you were a foreign agent or spy, since they would have no record of you.That’s a very good point about I.D.
I am for growth and selfimprovement but another perspective is that life is just a concept that exists in our minds and it is an artificial categorisation. What we are physically as far we understand are quantum energy fields floating and interacting with others. Not much more. The rest is a story.A virus is a living entity and so are we.
We are by far the most successful virus the earth has ever seen, maybe too successful for earth's own well-being.
However I do believe, as we evolve further, our mindsets would change in tandem with that growth and we as a species can only grow further.
No doubt we will move on to other worlds, its the nature of virus to find another host.Earth has been through far worse than humans. It will be fine and dandy after we've died out or left, until it's swallowed by the sun. We may be a virus but in the 4.5 billion year history of the Earth we're just a bad case of fleas.
If we're lucky and don't destroy ourselves, we'll have moved on to other worlds and galaxies.
It all starts from a dream, of wanting something, that's life.I am for growth and selfimprovement but another perspective is that life is just a concept that exists in our minds and it is an artificial categorisation. What we are physically as far we understand are quantum energy fields floating and interacting with others. Not much more. The rest is a story.
I have been thankful that certain dead relatives died before the COVID era.I would like to live in a world without COVID.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Socrates and the first question of philisophy might be who am I? This thought experiment gives you and others some perspective about what kind of guy you are.Even as a thought experiment, such hypothetical questions are pointless. I see zero reason to believe the past is real, in the sense that it's a real place. Everything, from the moment of the big bang to the heat death of the universe, is simply an ongoing "process", which, when examined linearly and deterministically, consists of an infinitely complex series of events that are directly linked through cause and effect.
Furthermore, to get more annoyingly metaphysical, you cannot exist as you are now in the past, so this question is basically like asking "did humans in the past like existing in the time they existed?"
A better way to phrase this question is "what do you think was the best time to exist?" Yet it's still pointless to ask, the answer is always right now, or else you wouldn't be here.
To answer the question though, I do think it would be interesting to live Greece roughly in the time of Socrates. But again, if the "me" that would like to live in that time did in fact live in that time, it wouldn't be me, and so holding this opinion would have no meaning.
My whole argument wasn't based on Socrates (or Greek philosophy in general, which is extremely dualistic) but Buddhism, which describes how the self is an illusion, and is now backed up by neuroscientific studies.Socrates and the first question of philisophy might be who am I? This thought experiment gives you and others some perspective about what kind of guy you are.
That is why we created thousands of labels to get closer to figure it out.
Fun fact: The second or maybe the first question might be: To be or not to be.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There are many perspectives to it. It can mean a black guy in Afrika. Or a aborigines guy in Australia. Or a muslim in Mekka.My whole argument wasn't based on Socrates (or Greek philosophy in general, which is extremely dualistic) but Buddhism, which describes how the self is an illusion, and is now backed up by neuroscientific studies.
I'm saying this thought experiment doesn't help you understand what kind of guy you are, because the kind of guy you are right now is based off of 21st century genetics and social conditions, so to imagine your self as you are now in the past is utterly meaningless since it is impossible.
A boat.Here is another question that goes in that directio.: You live like Robinson Crusoe. What would you like to have on your island?