“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Who here is asexual?

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OP: why would someone who is asexual be on a forum dedicated to fornication with women?
An hetro-romantic or hetro-social will still want women. One may just like to feed over the energy of women, cuddle up, even go out on dates but not be into any sex with them. Its just like prefering to watch female lead music videos rather than porn. I am not asexual by the way but as long as they like and want a woman anyway (pleutonic or strict romantic) then they are welcome to learn seduction on this board. Social connections with the opposite sex are always important.
 

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That's a very esoteric use case. Let's see if anyone pipes up.
 

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Ive noticed that I can be surprisingly a-sexual. It's something I am practicing lately ,because I'd rather identify as overly sexual. I can definitely see how an orgasm is seen as strong as cocaine.

With most things in life I have trouble with moderation. I am always going to the extremes of things .

As I've mentioned before, I had to practice nofap temporary to get some control back. Last year I banged a fat woman due to desperation. That was an absolute low point.

Now tbh I'm like an alcoholic who doesn't drink. Every hot woman I see still puts me in hunter mode. I've spent too much time chasing women to ever fully get rid of the addiction.

But AT LEAST it seems like I am getting more control over which women I want now; ONLY HB7,5 and up
 

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Ive noticed that I can be surprisingly a-sexual. It's something I am practicing lately ,because I'd rather identify as overly sexual. I can definitely see how an orgasm is seen as strong as cocaine.

With most things in life I have trouble with moderation. I am always going to the extremes of things .

As I've mentioned before, I had to practice nofap temporary to get some control back. Last year I banged a fat woman due to desperation. That was an absolute low point.

Now tbh I'm like an alcoholic who doesn't drink. Every hot woman I see still puts me in hunter mode. I've spent too much time chasing women to ever fully get rid of the addiction.

But AT LEAST it seems like I am getting more control over which women I want now; ONLY HB7,5 and up
Me too I have some asexual phases which I do deliberately in order to get balance. Meditation combined with some activities can bring the urge down. I could watch porn without feeling anything.
 

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Me too I have some asexual phases which I do deliberately in order to get balance. Meditation combined with some activities can bring the urge down. I could watch porn without feeling anything.
I am curious how long such a phase lasts for you?

The last sentence is foreign to me. Can't imagine watching porn anymore, especially without falling back to old bad habits.
 

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Not asexual but drive is very much on the low side due to a long dry spell.

I still enjoy talking to women and being friends with them. I still find them attractive.

But will need the right “slump buster” to “prime the pump” and reactivate my drive if that makes any sense at all.
Makes tons of sense.

Is your lust for sex slumbering in the background now?
 

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I am curious how long such a phase lasts for you?

The last sentence is foreign to me. Can't imagine watching porn anymore, especially without falling back to old bad habits.
It differed. Depending on the stress I had could be days, weeks, months.

I am semi retired. If I would work and have stress it would be much harder to balance things so I would try to do more meditation to be more asexual because I don't want the stress from work and the stress of my sexual urges at the same time.

I needed to do 1000 hours of meditaton or so to be able to have a fighting chance against my urges.

Even nowadays sometimes I get out of balance and 20 minute meditation is not enough and I do have to go to 1 hour.

Btw:
It is over for asexual cells
 

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I'm asexual towards anything thats an HB8 or less. ;-)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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