"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

who here is a hairy a mother fuker!?

HappyHarryHardon

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 16, 2011
Messages
154
Reaction score
2
me! i'm talking hairy ass, arms, legs, eyebrows, back, you name it. think robin williams (the actor) - that's me!

it hasn't affected me in getting women, sometimes i just feel after i have sex or something that the girl is staring at my hairy back and i know she's thinking "holy moly!" sometimes i get a lil paranoid that i quickly put my shirt back on but it doesn't bother me too much. i will never wax it for any woman, not even jessica alba!

http://a.abcnews.com/images/Entertainment/ra_garcia_080522_ssh.jpg < andy garcia
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

bigneil

Banned
Joined
Oct 20, 2006
Messages
8,265
Reaction score
2,644
Location
Texas
Hair is a sign of testosterone and a healthy body, but it seems that women all want a man with a smoothly shaved chest these days. I don't have too much hair, but I hate the idea that women want me to shave my chest. It's a feminine thing to have no hair - why do women want feminized men all of a sudden?
 

kenpiffyjr

Senior Don Juan
Joined
May 3, 2011
Messages
265
Reaction score
146
Eh...they have a right. They won't date guys with hairy backs....the same percentage if not more won't date a chick with ugly feet.

The great thing about being a man...other than height and hairloss...we can fix just about anything. All women have on a social standpoint is looks, and they have to be flawless.

We can **** up our feet because we're playing ball all our lives. We can have a hairy back and wax it. Chest, arm, and leg hair seem to get chicks moist. Women having it....lol.

We winning.
 

Matthew Lyon

Don Juan
Joined
May 21, 2011
Messages
50
Reaction score
1
Sears has some sales/clearances on lawnmowers. You may want to check them out.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Top