"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who here is a Bad Boy?

Julian

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I know im going to catch some heat for this but I dont currrr


This dude is a quintessential bad ass. read his bio an what hes about. dudes on some real sh1t even tho i heard he's a loan shark and most probably think hes a douche.

http://www.myspace.com/timsharky
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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zekko said:
I agree, I have to think that the quality of women that bad boys get has to be pretty low, at least once you enter the adult world. How many super hot model types do you see hardcore bikers with?
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Word up. I didn't even think about his.

I'll admit, I see alot of younger bad boys with some hot (skanky) women. But the type of women that go for bad boys NEVER age well.

They always have gross tattoos, leathery skin, fake looking hair and are trying to hold on to the young apperance. They are all so worn out and used up looking by the time they hit 27 years old.


And on the same side of the coin, bad boys typically don't age well and can't date 10 or 20 years below their age.

It's easy for a successful guy to pull a hot 20 something in his 40's. But when a 20 year old girl sees a worn out biker she just steps to the other side of the street.


So if you are going to be a bad boy just be sure you have a back up plan for when being a bad boy isn't enough.
 

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Anybody calling themselves a "bad boy" is probably a dweeb.

Who gives a sh*t? Do what works, reject what doesn't. Being a good guy (as opposed to a niiiiiice wussy) will get you a long way.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Anybody calling themselves a "bad boy" is probably a dweeb.

Who gives a sh*t? Do what works, reject what doesn't. Being a good guy (as opposed to a niiiiiice wussy) will get you a long way.
This is why I bring this up. To some extent, I think the "bad boys get all the hot women" idea is a myth perpetuated by the seduction industry. I think this myth has its origins in high school, where girls may become fascinated by the bad boy type. Partly because maybe the bad boys are not afraid to approach them, while so many "normal" young guys are clueless sheep who are. A lot of times the bad bay in high school is someone who has been held back a few grades, so he may have a maturity advantage.

Many guys do not really mature until well into their twenties, they don't start to hit their prime until then. So maybe until then they are at a disadvantage to the bad boy, who simply has more guts than they do. But I see no evidence that this trend (if it is real) continues past this point in life.
 
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