"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Who here is a Bad Boy?

Julian

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I know im going to catch some heat for this but I dont currrr


This dude is a quintessential bad ass. read his bio an what hes about. dudes on some real sh1t even tho i heard he's a loan shark and most probably think hes a douche.

http://www.myspace.com/timsharky
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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zekko said:
I agree, I have to think that the quality of women that bad boys get has to be pretty low, at least once you enter the adult world. How many super hot model types do you see hardcore bikers with?
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Word up. I didn't even think about his.

I'll admit, I see alot of younger bad boys with some hot (skanky) women. But the type of women that go for bad boys NEVER age well.

They always have gross tattoos, leathery skin, fake looking hair and are trying to hold on to the young apperance. They are all so worn out and used up looking by the time they hit 27 years old.


And on the same side of the coin, bad boys typically don't age well and can't date 10 or 20 years below their age.

It's easy for a successful guy to pull a hot 20 something in his 40's. But when a 20 year old girl sees a worn out biker she just steps to the other side of the street.


So if you are going to be a bad boy just be sure you have a back up plan for when being a bad boy isn't enough.
 

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Anybody calling themselves a "bad boy" is probably a dweeb.

Who gives a sh*t? Do what works, reject what doesn't. Being a good guy (as opposed to a niiiiiice wussy) will get you a long way.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
Anybody calling themselves a "bad boy" is probably a dweeb.

Who gives a sh*t? Do what works, reject what doesn't. Being a good guy (as opposed to a niiiiiice wussy) will get you a long way.
This is why I bring this up. To some extent, I think the "bad boys get all the hot women" idea is a myth perpetuated by the seduction industry. I think this myth has its origins in high school, where girls may become fascinated by the bad boy type. Partly because maybe the bad boys are not afraid to approach them, while so many "normal" young guys are clueless sheep who are. A lot of times the bad bay in high school is someone who has been held back a few grades, so he may have a maturity advantage.

Many guys do not really mature until well into their twenties, they don't start to hit their prime until then. So maybe until then they are at a disadvantage to the bad boy, who simply has more guts than they do. But I see no evidence that this trend (if it is real) continues past this point in life.
 
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