"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who here has used EFT to help become a DJ?

RazorAzoth

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EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques
http://www.emofree.com

I know it's been bashed quite a few times on here, but on the same token, it's been praised by a lot. I believe one of the most respected guys here, Interceptor, praised it a lot.

Who here has successfully used it to become a DJ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sorry but i prefer having emotions when speaking to people, makes it easier to connect.
 

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Tekniq said:
Sorry but i prefer having emotions when speaking to people, makes it easier to connect.
Did you even visit that website explaining EFT? It doesn't eliminate emotions. That's absurd. It eliminates negative feelings and thoughts.

Searched around the forums and it was Interceptor who praised EFT. Hopefully he can offer some insight on this matter pertaining to EFT and being a DJ.
 

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Wow, EFT really gets no love on here, does it? The ironic part is that it's something that can be as useful in your life as reading countless books on seduction and gaining confidence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmmm eliminating thoughts........reframing, paradigm shift...........

perceptions...........not many people can do this or are willing to be that disciplined.

BUT YES IT DOES WORK.
 

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I was like...electronic funds transfer? wtf?

And it looks like a pyramid scheme. And reading books about chicks is useless.

Listen to Leykis.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
If you're an emotional wreck, then it sounds good.
Then maybe I should look into it. Seeing as I've lost weight and have absolutely no apetite. I wonder if it works for rebuilding self esteem. And for getting a toxic woman out of my head.
 

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Rhoto said:
And it looks like a pyramid scheme. And reading books about chicks is useless.
How on earth is something that is completely free a pyramid scheme? You obviously didn't even visit the website.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I have used some thinking stuff to remove bad emotions ( the law of attraction ( the secret)) .... It has worked for me.

Like COD has posted, it requires a lot of discipline.... Actually one day a friend of mine thought I was high because I was in a perfect state of mind with no bad emotions. That was funny.
 
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