"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Who here has used EFT to help become a DJ?

RazorAzoth

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EFT: Emotional Freedom Techniques
http://www.emofree.com

I know it's been bashed quite a few times on here, but on the same token, it's been praised by a lot. I believe one of the most respected guys here, Interceptor, praised it a lot.

Who here has successfully used it to become a DJ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sorry but i prefer having emotions when speaking to people, makes it easier to connect.
 

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Tekniq said:
Sorry but i prefer having emotions when speaking to people, makes it easier to connect.
Did you even visit that website explaining EFT? It doesn't eliminate emotions. That's absurd. It eliminates negative feelings and thoughts.

Searched around the forums and it was Interceptor who praised EFT. Hopefully he can offer some insight on this matter pertaining to EFT and being a DJ.
 

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Wow, EFT really gets no love on here, does it? The ironic part is that it's something that can be as useful in your life as reading countless books on seduction and gaining confidence.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hmmm eliminating thoughts........reframing, paradigm shift...........

perceptions...........not many people can do this or are willing to be that disciplined.

BUT YES IT DOES WORK.
 

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I was like...electronic funds transfer? wtf?

And it looks like a pyramid scheme. And reading books about chicks is useless.

Listen to Leykis.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
If you're an emotional wreck, then it sounds good.
Then maybe I should look into it. Seeing as I've lost weight and have absolutely no apetite. I wonder if it works for rebuilding self esteem. And for getting a toxic woman out of my head.
 

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Rhoto said:
And it looks like a pyramid scheme. And reading books about chicks is useless.
How on earth is something that is completely free a pyramid scheme? You obviously didn't even visit the website.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I have used some thinking stuff to remove bad emotions ( the law of attraction ( the secret)) .... It has worked for me.

Like COD has posted, it requires a lot of discipline.... Actually one day a friend of mine thought I was high because I was in a perfect state of mind with no bad emotions. That was funny.
 
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