"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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who here has felt like this

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dannyrt34 said:
I remember I felt like this back in middle school on my first crush

http://i360.photobucket.com/albums/oo43/dannyrt34/1221001429.jpg

lol this should be sosuaves logo or somethin... but seriously let's get our bums in gear and not let this happen to another guy again. be the guy on the right.

That will always happen cause there is a woman shortage that most men are in denial about for some reason... oh yeh! govt fake stats to keep us optimistic and working hard...

NOTE: Men sit alone by force , and women sit alone by choice..LOL
 

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Alle_Gory said:
The population census disagrees with you.

Male
144,188

Female
149,647

*Values in 1000's

SOURCE: U.S. Census Bureau, Current Population Survey, Annual Social and Economic Supplement, 2006

http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/men_women_2006.html

*Puts on tin foil hat*
DonGorgon said:
.. oh yeh! govt fake stats to keep us males optimistic and working hard...
Please dont believe everything the govt tell you!

The National GDP is critically dependent on the willingness of males to work hard which is directly correlated to their need to obtain money to court or maintain a female mate...

If the govt admits that there are not enough women to go around there will be a massive psychological depression among the male population resulting in lost productivity and maybe even a complete socio-economic melt down.

NOTE: You are often told what is best for the good of the country /system not necessarily what is true!
 

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It doesn't matter if theres more men or women. What matters is you. Are you an AFC or DJ.


It's not about outside things or it's not about making excuses. It's about your ability to attract women.

Dannyrt34 said:
I remember I felt like this back in middle school on my first crush

http://i360.photobucket.com/albums/oo43/dannyrt34/1221001429.jpg

lol this should be sosuaves logo or somethin... but seriously let's get our bums in gear and not let this happen to another guy again. be the guy on the right.
I know how he feels. It's something that used to happen me alot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DonGorgon said:
Please dont believe everything the govt tell you!
I believe certain things. Like the national census.

The National GDP is critically dependent on the willingness of males to work hard which is directly correlated to their need to obtain money to court or maintain a female mate...
No. The GPD once you subtract the effects of inflation, is related to productivity. Productivity is the output/person.
It is affected by employment levels, the quality and quantity of production equipment available, and other things.

The fastest, and easiest way to increase GPD is to increase employment, and then output/person through equipment. This is assuming there is demand in the economy for production.

No demand = No production

If the govt admits that there are not enough women to go around there will be a massive psychological depression among the male population resulting in lost productivity and maybe even a complete socio-economic melt down.
That's China with the major problem. And guess what? Their state-run, communist-controlled census bureau reveals that there ARE more men than women.

So they are not hiding this.

Governments have more important, and less obvious things to hide.

NOTE: You are often told what is best for the good of the country /system not necessarily what is true!
I wasn't told anything. I looked it up myself and made my own judgment.


Pass the pipe please.
 

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Since 2003, I've been the other guy :rockon: .
 

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Don. Are we finished the discussion?

You didn't show me your proofs.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
The population census disagrees with you.

Male
144,188

Female
149,647

*Values in 1000's
Oh yeah but lets break it down farther. About 50% of those chicks are fat and another 25%-30% are average at best. That leaves only like 20% of the chick population that are lusted after by sosuave members (after all sosuave wasn't created to get it on with just any chicks BUT HOT CHICKS).

Of those 20% about 50% are either married or have steady BF, which leaves only like 10% of hot pvssy available.

There might not be a shortage of women but there is a shortage of HOT AVAILABLE WOMEN. It is why a site like this exist today, to give some men the edge.

Of coarse I am pulling those stats out of my ass but no matter where you go, there are shortage of hot available women.
 

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I hear Black Helicopters *takes cover*

Think about it, How many men have died in the wars of the 20th century? And even after all that we're still only about equal with females (5% difference ain't alot)

And for those who think there are more men than women, Even then, that means that the ratio of male to female is even higher.

Lateral thinking my friends :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Wow...

I really didn't think my thread was going to turn into a political debate...
lol you guys are funny
 

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haha thats an awesome picture - saved as! lol.... well its not awesome per say, but I like what it portrays.


...And I don't care care about consensus, statistics or gov't lies... There is plenty of women for me! :rockon:
 

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Talking about hot available women, down here we have a little joke on the dating scene: "Attractive, mentally stable, single - pick two".
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Conspiracy theorists are as bad as trolls. Have any of you negative guys heard of an abundance mindset? It's this little thing that DJs have.

On topic, yeah I've been there more than a few times myself. Brings back memories.
 

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Every now and then, I feel like that poor guy in the photo.
 

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Anyone know of the guy that believes all world leaders are lizards

David Icke ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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