Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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man, dont give me that crap, u know what a girlfriend is.Originally posted by MrBond007
Depends of what is your definiton of girlfriend.If it is emotionally intimate relashionship then my answer is no.If you meant having sex from time to time my answer is yes.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
yeah sorry, wife counts.Originally posted by BobbDobbs
Does my wife count?![]()
no need to get excited, no i dont have a girlfriend.Originally posted by jakethasnake
I'm single right now.
CLOONEY - is this another "I have a girlfriend right now so I'm more pimp than you" pissing contest? Hope not.
CLOONEY, I'm 29 and she's 34. Marriage has been discussed as the "ultimate goal" of "what we are doing", but no date has been set and the question hasn't been popped.Originally posted by CLOONEY
Chewy, 5 years man, sh*t thats a long time. How old r u guys? and r u considering marrige sometime soon?
Originally posted by So pimp its scary
I have made a decision to abstain from the girlfriends, for at least a year or two. Anytime that I've tied myself down to a woman, I start doing stupid things (like continuing flirting with every girl I talk to) and end up cheating.
When I have the money to back me up, I usually go on about 5-10 dates per month mostly with changing women, or I'll start having progress with one woman untill she does some stupid shyte to get me to next her.
A better question would have been HOW MANY girls are you dating right now?
-An american that comes to canada now and then
-a blond from my socio class
-brunette I just met today and insta-dated
-a brunette from my psych class
-I'm also trying to hook up with this fine little number that a chick friend of mine told me to not flirt with (so I didn't, the girl started flirting with me)
-A not so hot girl that is a phuck friend during slow times
-the ultra-religious girl that I dumped for not putting out is coming back around.
There are other prospects, but not worth mentioning to the extent of these girls (M, Laura, Jenna are also recent victims of next).
How far I will get with each of these girls doesn't really matter to me much, some have higher IL then others, and I take advantage of that to the max.
You are a naive AFC. Away with you.Originally posted by DJ_Dork
Sure dude, whatever you think of in your fantasies.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
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