"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Who has consolidated their student loans?

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I graduated college in december, so I'm getting into repayment on my loans (roughly 20,000 bucks worth).

I need to consolidate because my rates are silly, and I have money taken out from 3 different lenders. I started doing some internet research about this, and I can't make sense of any of it. The rates these companies offer is all over the place. Some reputable lenders are at 4.5, but then some companies I've never heard of are at like 2 something.

So has anyone here gone through this mess, and do you have any suggestions about how I should go about doing this thing?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wiesman44

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4.5% ? Are you sure ?


I'm a banker for Chase Bank, and our best student loans are .50% above prime........meaning 8.75%. I actually haven't seen any rates below prime, but then again I'm out of school.


If you an find 4.5%, which i doubt you can, consolidate right away
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Wiesman44 said:
4.5% ? Are you sure ?


I'm a banker for Chase Bank, and our best student loans are .50% above prime........meaning 8.75%. I actually haven't seen any rates below prime, but then again I'm out of school.


If you an find 4.5%, which i doubt you can, consolidate right away
I've seen Federal student loan consolidations for 4.5% for the life of the loan. With that said Forms, make sure that whatever you find doesn't charge any fees nor is just an introductory rate.
 
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