"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Who has consolidated their student loans?

The Forms

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I graduated college in december, so I'm getting into repayment on my loans (roughly 20,000 bucks worth).

I need to consolidate because my rates are silly, and I have money taken out from 3 different lenders. I started doing some internet research about this, and I can't make sense of any of it. The rates these companies offer is all over the place. Some reputable lenders are at 4.5, but then some companies I've never heard of are at like 2 something.

So has anyone here gone through this mess, and do you have any suggestions about how I should go about doing this thing?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wiesman44

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4.5% ? Are you sure ?


I'm a banker for Chase Bank, and our best student loans are .50% above prime........meaning 8.75%. I actually haven't seen any rates below prime, but then again I'm out of school.


If you an find 4.5%, which i doubt you can, consolidate right away
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Wiesman44 said:
4.5% ? Are you sure ?


I'm a banker for Chase Bank, and our best student loans are .50% above prime........meaning 8.75%. I actually haven't seen any rates below prime, but then again I'm out of school.


If you an find 4.5%, which i doubt you can, consolidate right away
I've seen Federal student loan consolidations for 4.5% for the life of the loan. With that said Forms, make sure that whatever you find doesn't charge any fees nor is just an introductory rate.
 
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