"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You are trying to solve a math problem. You’re “teacher” showed you how to solve it, but they way he explained just doesn’t feel right…but hey it’s the teacher so you just believe him. You go home that night and try out one of the problems and you just can’t get the answer, or the answer to the next one or the next. Out of 30 problems you can maybe solve 1 or 2, probably just by accident though.

The next day you go back to class and question your teacher. He says you MUST not be doing what he was saying because you are getting wrong answers. Again you go home and maybe can answer 1 or 2 problems.......You get frustrated, yell, scream, break some stuff maybe. In all this excitement someone hears you and comes over. He asks you what’s wrong; you tell him you just can’t figure this out. This person shows you how to do it (which is not the way the teacher showed you) so you automatically tell him it was a fluke he doesn’t know anything. He does the next 20 and gets them all right, you finally believe him and try it out for your self….IT WORKS, FINALLY, you can do it now.

Day 3, test day, you finish the test in ½ the time of the next person and get all the answers right. Everyone looks at you in amazement and wonder. The teacher becomes a little suspicious.
The next day rolls by, you are feeling confident. You get the test back “F” in red ink across your paper…Your shoulders slump and your face contorts…..HOW did this happen? You go up to the teacher and demand and answer. He tells you that though you got all the problems right you didn’t do it how he asked. You go sit back down, it turns out everyone else got A’s but, they all had almost every problem wrong, but did it how the teacher asked so they got rewarded.

This pattern happens over and over; in almost all of your classes….It’s now your junior year, the SAT’s roll around you score a 1585. Colleges are now begging you to go to them. All the rest of the people score under 800, but none of them can figure out why, THEY where the ones getting A’s not you.
They all ask you what your “trick” was, but you didn’t have any. You just tell them that you learned how to correctly do everything, while the rest of them where learning a false way, by teachers who didn’t know what they where saying.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hmmmm..... interesting

i learned to question teachers a lot
 

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I am using teachers in a very very broad sence here. really not talking about school teachers persay.
 
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