"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who got some strange last night?

Whoe got some new years strange?

  • No...dammit.

    Votes: 25 71.4%

  • Yes, with a new girl...Oh yeah!

    Votes: 5 14.3%

  • Yes, but was a repeat (LTR's dont count)

    Votes: 5 14.3%
  • Total voters
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horaholic

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Everyone should answer this honestly. I just want to see how many of us got some new poon last night.

I didnt, but yesterday morning i got a booty call from my ex, so its not so bad.

Edit: I should have put a 'made out' option, but i forgot. Tell your stories, folks.

I did last year, though. I tried for the same one last night, but only got a kiss.

EDIT #2 LTR's are not applicable, so dont vote no, if you are in one.
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No. I ****in hate myself. I just can't do the club scene or any of this at all. I'm a disgrace.

/rant
 
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I went out with a plan and I didn't work up the courage to make a single approach. Some random girl threw her arms around me and gave me a new year's hug but that was it. I deserved nada and that's what I got.

Though looking at the poll result, I feel a bit better. :) Also looking round the crowd at midnight, I'd say less than 2% got a kiss at midnight so had I got single kiss I'd have been ahead of the curve.
 
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I took this girl to the club ..our first date actuallly after talking texting for months. Danced th whole night took her to my house after and made out she didn't give me the poon..I tried to go for it but she said I was going too fast. Her attraction level is sky high so I'm definitely getting it.... Anti-slvt defenses are always high on the first date
 
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I could have if there were more people/girls around...my fvcking friends were trying to c0ckblock me all night. Like to the point that they wouldn't leave me and this girl alone for more than 2 seconds, no matter where we went. But if I meet up with this girl alone, its on. She has been saying for a while "ew, I would never give a bl0wjob blah blah blah" but last night she admitted to having given one - except that was a lie; she definitely hasn't. That was just her way of letting me know that she would give me one. There is a long back story that involves me ribbing her about not giving me a bl0wjob...C+F don't worry about the potential AFC-ness of "requesting" a bl0wjob lol...

So yeah. It was a moral victory with delayed physical benefits.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Nope, didn't get any last night. I know I'm a long ways away from getting with any girl. Currently I'm not good enough to attract any girl, don't have the inner game or the outer game. The only way I could have sex right now is to pay for it. I'd like to fix it but that's probably a long ways off. Really need to fix my depression first.
 
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TheWayOfAllFlesh

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Kal0051 said:
Nope, didn't get any last night. I know I'm a long ways away from getting with any girl. Currently I'm not good enough to attract any girl, don't have the inner game or the outer game. The only way I could have sex right now is to pay for it. I'd like to fix it but that's probably a long ways off. Really need to fix my depression first.
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This. For me.
 
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1 yes, 20 no; FVCK YEAH SOSUAVE! No keyboard jockeys in here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i got some poon but my situation is weird with this girl atm
 
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The girl I've been fvcking steadily had her dad in town from colorado, so NYE became a ONS Challenge. There is a real cute HB7.5 who has been in an LTR but I haven't seen the bf the last couple times I've seen her, she wants to fvck and I want it too...

But this fat b!tch c0ckblocked me! Sitting at the bar, girls on both sides of me as usual, this heifer comes up behind me and puts me in a nasty headlock. She just joined the Navy, and like all boots could not wait to come home and act like a boot in front of friends and family. At the time, I didn't know who the hell was choking me, but it was starting to piss me off, and they weren't letting go, so I shot my right arm up behind their left shoulder while breaking the choke, and I slammed her face into the bar. I held it together like James Bond, but the girls were pissed at her and wouldn't drop it, so the night ended with me puking out the window of my truck on the way home...

Another NYE on the books, anyway.
 
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I did though I did try my hardest to CB myself, subconciously of course.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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katatonia said:
1 yes, 20 no; FVCK YEAH SOSUAVE! No keyboard jockeys in here.
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Well, in general - i think most guys on here who are "well respected" are in LTRs or some kind of relationship. Therefore - we can't really vote on this since the poster didn't give the option, and it wouldn't really count as "strange".

I was fvcking a girl at 10pm until around when the ball dropped (breaks in between; not continuous) - then we both passed out.

However, i have to vote "no" because i've fvcked that girl at least 50 other times already.
 
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Yes. The point of this thread was to see who threw out New Years game (or got gamed) to land some tail. LTR sex doesnt qualify as spitting game (unless your chick REALLY sucks! lol), but I wouldnt want them voting NO either, unless they actively went out to cheat and got denied.

So, for clarification, people in LTR's shouldnt vote on this. There are a LOT of people reading this that didnt vote though, so if they are single, Im assuming its a no. Out of 321 views, so far only 7 people are claiming to have gotten some. damn.

I want to see some LR's people. I know someones got some crazy stories. Where they at?
 
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Nope, nothing here. I was hoping to be invited along with a friend of mine that's always doing something fun, but no dice. I could've gone out by myself, but that probably would've sucked and my bar/club game is non-existent. Oh well. New year, new start.
 
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A guy I know ran into three German foreign exchange students on their way back home, and invited them to come to a party we were all at.

Two of them were lame, but the third was pretty freaky. I got a ******* in the bathroom - which isn't nearly as sexy as it sounds, but I'm not complaining.

The funny part was, two other guys in the room were 100% into trying to get something working, but a little bit of presence and non-neediness won her over.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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