"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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is a piece of ****? i dont even mean to offend anybody who loves this movie cus it seems like people either love or hate this movie. i REALLY dont get why people would enjoy this crap tho
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its got a great soundtrack, interesting love story, is about time travel, good use of Drew Barrymore and Noah Wyle, and Jake Gyllanhal's breakout starring role.

Whats not to love?
 

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its pointless...theres no moral...no action, no comedy, its not scary...and the main character sucks
 

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agreed.

Enjoyed the Butterfly effect a lot more though it's gotten bad reviews from the critics.
 

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i totally agree, i saw it to see wat the hype was.. but scenes just go by passively and ur just like "ok..." eventually i got so bored i turned it off
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Actually, it's one of my favorite movies, altoghether with A Orange Clockwork, Natural Born Killers, Four Rooms and Alpha Dog... Sed de gustibus non disputandum est
 

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I sort of remember the soundtrack being good. It had a lot of 80s tunes right?

But the plot lost me and I LOVE movies with a thick plot. So let me see if I understood it (or even remember it right).

Donnie dies because a plane crashes on his house or something? And somehow he "mentally projects" 30 days earlier and lives it all over again. In essence he relives the last 30 days of his life and does it right by "getting the girl".

The whole time he is reliving the thirty days he is told that "the world will end in 30 days" but what is really meant is that he will die in 30 days.

Like I said, I may not remember it right. But I seem to remember interpreting the plot that way when I saw it back in the day.

What do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jariel said:
I always thought it was a poor man's David Lynch movie.
I agree. People always told me I'd love the film, but when I finally did I was rather disappointed, and I knew nothing about the film other than it'd somehow involve a bunny. With Donnie's tourette syndrome outbreaks, I felt the film was contrived and I just couldn't find myself rooting for Donnie, which is critical for anti-hero stories. I felt its ending was too predictable and lacked the distinction of a true mind fvck. In the end, it was just a high-end teen flick.
 

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For those who didn't like the movie, what type of movies do you generally watch?

I will admit, the first time I seen it I was pretty bored and I protested when my roommate wanted to watch it because I thought it was to slow.
 

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I actually saw it last week finally after my friend has been raving about it all the time. I don't really understand what happens. Can someone clarify it a little? So a plane crashes on his room while he's sleep walking. Then he's gonna die in 30 days. And the rabbit represents God right? And then he does what he wants before he finally dies in the end.
 

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Monster said:
I actually saw it last week finally after my friend has been raving about it all the time. I don't really understand what happens. Can someone clarify it a little? So a plane crashes on his room while he's sleep walking. Then he's gonna die in 30 days. And the rabbit represents God right? And then he does what he wants before he finally dies in the end.
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The world will end if the two universes get caught up into each other.. hence the black sky @ the end. Donnie gets to see how the world will end before he decides to kill himself. The whole movie has him 'kiiiiiiinda' knowing what is going on in the least. Hence when he is in the movie theater he says 'why are u wearing that stupid bunny costume' or when he sees the bunny in the mirror he starts poking @ the eye he shoots. Read up on it @ wikipedia or the imdb message board.

I found the movie to be very entertaining. Just a completely different feel from other movies, and the music usage is amazing. The whole tears for fears song in the beginning is like nothing i've seen in a movie before.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Wikipedia has a giant write up about it that explains in great detail what the movie was all about.
 

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I ddin't really get it. The soundtrack was cool though
 

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I was really suprised how much I enjoyed that movie.
I appreciate them taking a real leap, and effort at making an interesting movie.

It's not a movie that works well the second time around though, well for me anyway...because you know the twists and turns.
 
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