"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who else has "pulled out"?

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A couple days ago I had sex with a girl. It happened out of nowhere and I had no condoms with me so I decided to risk it and just pull-out. Now I'm kinda actin paranoid because I've heard a lot of things about how "pre-***" can get her pregnant too not just when you bust. Any of you other guys do this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FiveFive said:
A couple days ago I had sex with a girl. It happened out of nowhere and I had no condoms with me so I decided to risk it and just pull-out. Now I'm kinda actin paranoid because I've heard a lot of things about how "pre-***" can get her pregnant too not just when you bust. Any of you other guys do this?

Many men try this but mess up in 2 main ways..

1. they wait until they feel like they are about to cuum to pull out.. Pre cuum has already come out and even some actual cuum since most men will not feel ejaculation until after it has started.

2. they F the girl again shortly after have in ejaculated ...lol millions of spermatazoans are all over the room at that point and risk is high if she is at the mid point if her cycle which is also when she is hornyest,,,
 

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FiveFive said:
A couple days ago I had sex with a girl. It happened out of nowhere and I had no condoms with me so I decided to risk it and just pull-out. Now I'm kinda actin paranoid because I've heard a lot of things about how "pre-***" can get her pregnant too not just when you bust. Any of you other guys do this?
Wow dude thats like the dumbest idea you could ever do when having sex. Pulling out NEVER works. You should've known better and kept a condom with you at all times. Im actually surprised that chick agreed to have sex with you without a condom. Good luck with whatever happens though...you better pray she doesnt get pregnant.
 

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currently hooking up with 3 regulars. I F them without a condom and always pull out. They're on birth control and also don't want kids so I always play it safe. I use to do what DG said, not pulling out in time, but now I pull out like pornstars do it and jerk it a few times until I nut.

I think necessary to pull out way ahead of time and make sure the women are on BC. If they're not on any type of birth control you have to strap up (even though most will say to strap up regardless whether she's on BC or not)

Of course to be safe, always strap up but it's so much better without. Good luck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Im just saying that the chances of a girl getting pregnant are WAYYYY higher when pulling out. I personally would never take that risk. Theres just so many things that can go wrong. You can cvm unexpectedly, too fast, or premature. Your pre-cvm can get her pregnant. You can pull out, cvm on her ass, and then put it back in only to have more cvm drip out of ur d*ck into her.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude thats like the dumbest idea you could ever do when having sex. Pulling out NEVER works. You should've known better and kept a condom with you at all times. Im actually surprised that chick agreed to have sex with you without a condom. Good luck with whatever happens though...you better pray she doesnt get pregnant.
Pulling out never works? I used to pull out everytime with every girl i had sex with and i have no kids. So i guess youre WRONG?! Its not the best idea but the girl doesnt get pregnant everytime, like you alluded to.
 

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haha i did the same with a girl about a week ago.. pulled out a good bit before feeling the need to *** and finished myself off on her ass.

She better not be pregnant !

But if she is ... she doesn't know my second name so ill just ignore her calls :D
 

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pingpongz said:
haha i did the same with a girl about a week ago.. pulled out a good bit before feeling the need to *** and finished myself off on her ass.

She better not be pregnant !

But if she is ... she doesn't know my second name so ill just ignore her calls :D
What about the child you have produced?
 
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pingpongz said:
haha i did the same with a girl about a week ago.. pulled out a good bit before feeling the need to *** and finished myself off on her ass.

She better not be pregnant !

But if she is ... she doesn't know my second name so ill just ignore her calls :D

he cant be serious....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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From what I understand it is unlikely for a girl to get pregnant through pre cvm it is entirely possible but not likely.
 

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The whole pre-*** thing is a myth. No scientist has ever been able to find enough sperm in pre-*** to cause a pregnancy in anything other than a freak occurrence.

That being said, the pull-out method is alot less effective than the Pill, condoms etc. because you actually have to pay attention and pull out WELL BEFORE you actually come, and not every guy has that much self-control.

i know a fair number of couples who only use this method. Some of them have been together for years with no pregnancy. Maybe they're just lucky, but who knows.
 

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It's still ridiculously stupid. Chance of pregnancy AND a chance of an STD.

Even if you knew she was clean, where's the fun of having to withdraw?
You dont think its fun shootin loads on girls faces? or Tits? or Ass? or filling their belly button up with cvm? Even when I have a gf thats on the pill, I'll still pull out and shoot on her sometimes. It's fun sometimes. You need to expand your horizons, dude.

There is almost no way to get a girl pregnant from pulling out. Yes, it's POSSIBLE. Its also possible to get struck by lightning or hit the lottery too. I feel sorry for anyone who cant control their own **** enough to time the pull out.

My old buddy was married for 10 years, and his wife was never on the pill,. cuz he didnt want her to get crazy, like pills make you do, and he pulled out for YEARS until they decided to have another baby. They must have fvcked a few thousand times that way with no pregnancies that they didnt plan for. Obviously, pulling out works fine, as long as you're smarter that your dyck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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horaholic said:
You dont think its fun shootin loads on girls faces? or Tits? or Ass? or filling their belly button up with cvm? Even when I have a gf thats on the pill, I'll still pull out and shoot on her sometimes. It's fun sometimes. You need to expand your horizons, dude.
Not every single time.
 

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eaglez1177 said:
Wow dude thats like the dumbest idea you could ever do when having sex. Pulling out NEVER works. You should've known better and kept a condom with you at all times. Im actually surprised that chick agreed to have sex with you without a condom. Good luck with whatever happens though...you better pray she doesnt get pregnant.
Better yet, you better prey you didnt contract any STD's....lol
 

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Why isn't every single girl on birth control?

You really screwin girls stupid enough not to have it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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