"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who else has longer hair?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Huffman
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You can use conditioner if you must, but I can understand if it feels too girly
CarlitosWay
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I'm willing to try whatever works and then I'll simplify it. I don't have hours to do my hair. My goal is 20min tops.Huffman said:I can understand if it feels too girly
I already use conditioner. What are some good, budget ones?
What do you mean, quality brush? What's the difference?
Huffman
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As for quality, I mean NOT this, but something similar to this.
The bristles are are shorter softer etc. And its more comfortable. I mean you don't want to hook the brush in your hair and rip it all off when you pull
Other then that, when you brush it, brush it completely, so that absolutely nothing is tangled anymore. Saves you a lot of effort for the next time! If it's tangled badly, start from the bottom up. Sometimes it's easier after showering.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Chicks said I reminded them of Fabio.