"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Who does Shaolin Kung Fu?

Zircon

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I have been doing it for about 9 months now and really enjoyong it.

The physical part is pretty tough but doable.

Anyone else here doing it with more experience? I would like to hear your opinion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you want to be a complete and successful human being, it is great. If you want to kick ass, it is great. If you want coordination, flexibility, strength; it is great. If you want to attain inner peace, it is great. Good choice, man.
 

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Yeah I reckon as well :)

3 months ago completed my beginner course and now suddenly everything is changing - more serious, and the physical part seems almost impossible (for now).

How advanced are you? That inner peace you are talking about is something that I am really after. I suppose that comes after knowing and having the confidence of being able to defend yourself in any situation.

great stuff.
 

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Would it be hard for taller people to do shaolin kung fu? From what ive seen most appear to be short.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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They're short because they're asian. If you are tall, you will most likely learn the "Long Fist" fighting style to utilize your reach.

Your inner peace will come from your meditation and your confidence in that you can take anyone, but you don't have to.
 
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