"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Who do you usually trust to set you up on dates other than yourself and why?

Who do you usually trust to set you up on the best of dates and why?

  • Your mom, dad, or other family member

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • Your best friend

    Votes: 3 30.0%
  • your female friends or friend's girlfriend

    Votes: 2 20.0%
  • The parents of the girl you fancy

    Votes: 1 10.0%
  • Your Co-Workers

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Only Yourself

    Votes: 8 80.0%
  • Other (Explain please)

    Votes: 1 10.0%

  • Total voters
    10

nismo-4

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Check out the poll, it's as simple as that. Be sure to leave feedback. Thanks, guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Bat

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Only myself...

...so that I know I'm not setting up a date with a fatty.

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The Comeback Kid

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Only myself. Pretty simple reasoning too...i'd like to control my own destiny, not have someone else do so. Plus, it doesn't exactly help your confidence if someone else is arranging dates for you IMO (since you wouldn't be earning the dates exactly).
 

CP3WOO

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If I'm going out, it will be of the girl of my chosing. I want to use my game to attract her and set up the date. It gets my confidence up. Getting set up kinda makes the night awkward cause all you're really talking about is how you know the middle man that set you up. I like having my own destiny in the palm of my hands. If I crash and burn, I want it to be on my own terms.
 

nismo-4

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CP3WOO said:
If I'm going out, it will be of the girl of my chosing. I want to use my game to attract her and set up the date. It gets my confidence up. Getting set up kinda makes the night awkward cause all you're really talking about is how you know the middle man that set you up. I like having my own destiny in the palm of my hands. If I crash and burn, I want it to be on my own terms.
Damn, and you're from New Orleans too?! I miss eating that damn crawfish on Sundays! I'm gettin' hungry just thinking about it!

All in all, to everybody, very marvelous logic. I definitely will just keep trusting myself. Getting somebody else in can kill attraction between you and the girl...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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WC2

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I don't trust anyone.

However, if I've been committed to a date already by someone else, damn right I'm going to show up and hit it out of the park (unless ugly).
 

Smack

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Only myself. My dating and sex life is my business and no-one else's. It's no-one else's responsibility to set me up on dates but my own.
 
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