nismo-4
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Who do you usually trust to set you up on dates other than yourself and why?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Comeback Kid
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Only myself. Pretty simple reasoning too...i'd like to control my own destiny, not have someone else do so. Plus, it doesn't exactly help your confidence if someone else is arranging dates for you IMO (since you wouldn't be earning the dates exactly).
CP3WOO
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If I'm going out, it will be of the girl of my chosing. I want to use my game to attract her and set up the date. It gets my confidence up. Getting set up kinda makes the night awkward cause all you're really talking about is how you know the middle man that set you up. I like having my own destiny in the palm of my hands. If I crash and burn, I want it to be on my own terms.
nismo-4
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Damn, and you're from New Orleans too?! I miss eating that damn crawfish on Sundays! I'm gettin' hungry just thinking about it!CP3WOO said:
All in all, to everybody, very marvelous logic. I definitely will just keep trusting myself. Getting somebody else in can kill attraction between you and the girl...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
WC2
Master Don Juan
I don't trust anyone.
However, if I've been committed to a date already by someone else, damn right I'm going to show up and hit it out of the park (unless ugly).
However, if I've been committed to a date already by someone else, damn right I'm going to show up and hit it out of the park (unless ugly).