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who did you go out with last weekend?

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If you asked a girl who did you go out with last weekend?, a girl you aren't dating, would that be considered AFC?
 

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maybe a better thing to say would be "so, do any thing fun or exciting last weekend?"
 

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Depends what information you're looking for. Asked exactly like that, it could show that you actually care what she did and with whom... something you don't really want your question to convey.

Ask her the same thing but in a funnier way, like "So, had a nice weekend at the nursery?" Things like "so, do any thing fun or exciting last weekend?" are boring statements who usually reap boring answers.

-Bill
 

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I the purpose of this is to find out if she has a boyfriend.
 

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well there's two ways to go about that then...

"are you single"

or

"do anything fun last weekend"...if she says what but not who... "with who?"
 

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Why not go for the direct route?

If you want to know if she has a boyfriend, ask her "do you have a b/f?" It's really that easy, you should go all private investigator on her and try to deduce things about her past in a round about way.
 

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But it wouldn't be bla bla bla, who did you go out with.


It would be: what did you do last weekend, what did you drink(do you drink), where were you, who with,was it fun, do you like going out with them, WE should go out sometime;) Something like that!
(and I'd ask these q not only to find out if she has a boyfriend, but to find out what the girl is like)
 
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