"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Decided That Models Are Attractive?

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Therefore, you tried to tell me that you find Rosie O'Donnell (a round woman) more attractive than Anna Kournikova (a thin woman).
Stop putting words in my mouth.

I stated earlier that "round" is not "fat".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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they never said 'high fashion models' are attractive. they want chicks who are tall because they put a rack of clothes in the changing room all one size or close to the same size... if they get a thick, short chick... itll make the CLOTHES look bad. we all know models aren't the most attractive... unless it's the models for the clothing brands in the mall or something.
 

Maximus Rex

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Ann Kournikova is thin??? So I guess Serena Williams is morbidly obese?
 
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