"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hello, Hey, Whats up and Greetings.

Long time lurker, quick post.

I was in the Archived Section of the Discussion Forums and came across a thread about "How to speak to Females", obviously not translated like that, but it was either written by Rollo Tomassi or Pook.

Where he gave example templates of How to speak and be a mystery, requiring the girl to ask more questions whilst you give relatively NO INFORMATION about your self which keeps her in the High IL.

Can anybody be a legend and dig this golden thread up for me, I thought I bookmarked it and didn't. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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it was anti dump's stuff

like what kind of car you drive?

american

cool




look up anti dump;s lessons - but seriously, you are beyond saving imo, you didnt even look at the video i posted, its easy son
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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