who brings up sex? man or woman?

[j8snx1]

hey guys, a quick question:

When it comes to conversations, is it better if the guy brings up the topic of sex, or is it better if the guy lets the girl bring up the sex topics to show that she's comfy with talking about that with the guy?

im not being afc here; there are fun ways to bring up sex topics, but I just figured I should get your opinions while reviewing the convo section of the DJ bible.

So to rephrase the question: Sex topics: be the man and bring it up yourself, or be the good listener and let her bring it up?

(PS: does talking about sex with her (in a mature way, not like "oooooh i wanna bang you up the ass") push her turn on buttons as well?)

 

[Harith]

i think that it's easier to have have conversations about sex if it is established early in the relationship as a non-taboo topic.

when it comes to who brings it up, I dont think that it really matters, if you have read her right, if you bring it up, you shouldn't be met with resistance (remember they are trying to sound slutty by bringing it up).

 

[Microphone Fiend]

make her think she is the one thinking about sex and stuff

Her: Your not getting any sex tonight?
Me: Damn I know whats on YOUR mind!

(Say you two are playing a game)
Me: I am like the best at poker, there is no way you can beat me.
Her: You are sooo going down
Me: Oh...I love it when u talk dirty to me

Just small stuff that has her thinking about it even if u arent talking about it yet, then u can blow the conversation open whenever

 

[dannowillbookem]

accusing them of being dirty minded is hilarious. i usually throw random references to sex in normal conversation ("ah god i have to go so baddd. its gonna be such a pissgasm when i can") to slip past their barriers without defences going up