"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Who are your top 10 musicians of the 20th century?

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I listen (and play, i'm a pianist in my spare time) all types of music and I think I have a good overall grasp for the overall music landscape. I feel these are the best musicians as far as pure talent is concerned from the 20th century

1. Art Tatum - no one has ever mastered a musicaal instrument like Tatum mastered the piano, ever, period. and he was blind.


2. Jimmi Hendrix - greatest guitarist of all time and was a prodigy


3. Michael Jackson - child abuse crap aside, he was a lycral genius. Like literally every song he ever wrote was a hit


4. Elton John - brilliant pianist and great song writer.


5. Miles Davis - literally created an entire era of jazz single handily. Kind of blue is IMHO the single best album of any genre


6. John Lennon - The beatles. Nuff said


7. Elvis Presley - the godfather of rock and roll. Brilliant performer


8. Stevie Wonder - Could sing, play the piano and play the harmonica, all at elite levels. The album eivets rednow is probably one of my fav of all time as it's basically just a show of stevie wonder's versatility.


9. Barbara Streisand- As much of a fan as I am of Ella Fitzgerald and Whitney Houston, Streisand in her prime could not be touched vocally. She was amazing


10. Jay Z - While rap is not really all my thing, Jay Z is a prodigy at what he does. He basically free styles classic albums. The Blue print, which is my fav rap album of all time, he free styled in 2 days. His free styles on hot 97 are better than 98% of rappers albums.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tupac
Jerry Garcia
Johnny Cash
Jimmy Buffet
Frank Sinatra
Kurt Cobain
Cab Calloway
Peter Tosh
Jim Morrison
MCA of The Beastie Boys, Adam Yauch
 
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