"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who are your top 10 musicians of the 20th century?

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I listen (and play, i'm a pianist in my spare time) all types of music and I think I have a good overall grasp for the overall music landscape. I feel these are the best musicians as far as pure talent is concerned from the 20th century

1. Art Tatum - no one has ever mastered a musicaal instrument like Tatum mastered the piano, ever, period. and he was blind.


2. Jimmi Hendrix - greatest guitarist of all time and was a prodigy


3. Michael Jackson - child abuse crap aside, he was a lycral genius. Like literally every song he ever wrote was a hit


4. Elton John - brilliant pianist and great song writer.


5. Miles Davis - literally created an entire era of jazz single handily. Kind of blue is IMHO the single best album of any genre


6. John Lennon - The beatles. Nuff said


7. Elvis Presley - the godfather of rock and roll. Brilliant performer


8. Stevie Wonder - Could sing, play the piano and play the harmonica, all at elite levels. The album eivets rednow is probably one of my fav of all time as it's basically just a show of stevie wonder's versatility.


9. Barbara Streisand- As much of a fan as I am of Ella Fitzgerald and Whitney Houston, Streisand in her prime could not be touched vocally. She was amazing


10. Jay Z - While rap is not really all my thing, Jay Z is a prodigy at what he does. He basically free styles classic albums. The Blue print, which is my fav rap album of all time, he free styled in 2 days. His free styles on hot 97 are better than 98% of rappers albums.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tupac
Jerry Garcia
Johnny Cash
Jimmy Buffet
Frank Sinatra
Kurt Cobain
Cab Calloway
Peter Tosh
Jim Morrison
MCA of The Beastie Boys, Adam Yauch
 
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