"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Are You To Give Advice?

Nighthawk

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My issue with So Suave is that with 'the scene's press coverage and a steady stream of new members there's less expert advice around here, and more AFCs cgatting amongst each other.

iSubsequently it's often difficult to know if advice is coming froma succesful DJ or an AFC with delusions of DJness.

I'm not going to post pics of my babes to cement my rep, (though I hope The Trim Reaper will vouch for their HB10ness), and I know most other members wouldn't either.

So perhaps we could incorporate some stats in our sigs or profile, so people know whose experience is worth listening to.

Something like

Nighthawk
Don Juan Rates Himself DJ8
Location: UK
Age: 36
GFs:25+
ONS 25+
Dumped -10%/Mutual 20%/Dumper 70%
Average GF/ONS: HB8 (It would have be 9 but there was this one fat chick...)
Inner Game 7
Outer Game: 8
Game status - coming out of minor slump

Hit Points - I've said too much....
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ace of Flames

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Everywhere you want to be.... I'm like a Visa card
Nighthawk, that sounds like a good idea. but then people would abuse it. "yea, i had like 200 gf's, u know, all 10s, yea, im the ****...."

if you're serious about that idea, hit up a mod with it. when i come on one of these days, and some box pops up saying, "you need to input your stats in your personal profile," i'll have you to thank. go for it.
 

Gonzalo

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Some time ago someone proposed a rating system so that there would be ratings but people wouldn't rate themselves... didn't really cought on, though.

Only way it would work is if someone took the advice, tried it out, and could then five some sort of positive or negative feedback, like Ebay.
 
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