"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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AlexLefty

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There are many things that trigger attraction in women, in short:
Alphas.
People who are fun, confident, and full of energy.
 

garruk

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honestly i think i do pretty well for myself.

im currently dating this girl i would give a solid hb8 (shes also got really rich parents).

the last girl i dated earlier this year was a solid 9-9.5 (no rich parents though). . easily the hottest girl ive met and seen in a loooong time.

ive never been able to ONS a HB nor have i ever been able to date two really good looking girls simulataenously so im not an ladies man or a pimp or whatever by any means. I face relationship problems like everyone else and soemtimes im left confused and dumped.

but i honestly think its not that hard: i put my career above everything else, i was born relatively decent looking (htough im not turning heads or anything) i hit the gym every day, dress well, and have a few equally career-driven but down-to-party friends.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JPlaya

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a 9 or 10. 7.5 to 8 is considered hot. A 9 to 10 is considered hawt
 

floydb25

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In my experience, it was the guys who were good looking, social, fit, ****y, assertive, confident, challenging, willing to bust their chops, not letting them get away with anything, being unafraid to leave, etc. All of them were players, didn't care too much, and the girls usually knew it. It just made them want them more. Even when I was the same way, it worked. We were all part of the same group.

The thing is, they attract what they are. Most hot girls are just as described. They like bad boys because they're bad girls. They just try to hide it, and act innocent, but deep down they're the same way. They're shallow, stuck up, unfaithful, ****y, demanding, manipulative, spoiled, etc, etc. They all belong to the same crowd.

I never found being the nice guy to work very well - because they're not nice girls. They just like to have fun, are all about the status, date hot guys for sex, are always on the prowl, love drama, play games, tease men, etc. A lot of them are users and players, but that doesn't stop them from complaining about the same things they are. Sympathizing with them and being the nice guy is a very bad idea, because most of these girls are trouble.
 

I'm in the Mood

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You need to learn how to interact with women in a way that creates attraction. Note that I didn't say "talk," but "interact," because you need to cover 100% of communication with women, meaning your body language, and facial expressions, in addition to your words.

Once you start to make it with women you will start to form an identity of being pre-selected. Once you have truly become pre-selected, you will be naturally attractive and you'll no longer have to try as hard and struggle to succeed with women.

It's not easy and you need to put in effort to get there. Make your life the life YOU want it to be, and you will find yourself in this position. One of the wants you must have is to socialize with women, regularly, and every day.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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You also need to be very persistent. A buddy of mine always has hot women on his arm and I was always curious how he did it. This guy in my opinion was only average looking and slightly overweight.

One day we went out together just cruising the city while he was single (regular places-no clubs or bars) and I learned how he did it. Wherever we went he cold approached sh1tloads of attractive women. He even cold approached women while waiting to get his license renewed at the DMV! He introduced himself and then gave them his phone number. He got rejected a lot and I saw 1 woman (a nurse) laugh in his face, but at the end of the day you only need 1 woman to say yes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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