Who am i? because right now, I don't know.

[Packers2010]

i though about this the other day and it was a major click for me, though this is only the start of me fixing it.

my MAJOR problem is: I don't know who I am. what I mean be this is, I have no values. when I ask myself who i am. the answer is " I don't know". I searched deeper and I found that I suck my values off the environment. this means I am Different in different environments. witch is wrong, I should be THE SAME in different environment. i should be THE BOSS.

I've been thinking this over and I haven't come to a conclusion yet. I'm not sure how I should tackle this. I still have High anxiety. at a push I can go approach, though, just like the other day at school, a group of hot girls came out for a smoke break and I froze up and I could feel the anxiety. it's bad when this happens.

how do you think I could get over this anxiety? is it a mind over matter thing where i just have to push past it? or is there greater forces at play?

 

[YAboi]

read this thread http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=202350

 

[zinc4]

i though about this the other day and it was a major click for me, though this is only the start of me fixing it.

my MAJOR problem is: I don't know who I am. what I mean be this is, I have no values. when I ask myself who i am. the answer is " I don't know". I searched deeper and I found that I suck my values off the environment. this means I am Different in different environments. witch is wrong, I should be THE SAME in different environment. i should be THE BOSS.

I've been thinking this over and I haven't come to a conclusion yet. I'm not sure how I should tackle this. I still have High anxiety. at a push I can go approach, though, just like the other day at school, a group of hot girls came out for a smoke break and I froze up and I could feel the anxiety. it's bad when this happens.

how do you think I could get over this anxiety? is it a mind over matter thing where i just have to push past it? or is there greater forces at play?

Facing life or death situations can fix this as well as just facing and beating a lot of opposition in your life....be it other people or your own demons as well as conquering fears. Yeah, it's not supposed to be an easy fix. But also just staying true to YOUR beliefs and not anyone else's.

 

[Blackhole105]

You're still young, so maybe it's just taking your a couple more years than most to figure it out...I know it is for me. I recommend trying a bit of meditation or maybe delving into CBT (cognitive behavioral therapy) because either of those may help you figure yourself out a bit.