"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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White women, black women, latin women, and asians

i am me

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damn some of yall are getting mad. i thought it was pretty funny...it's not like some stand up comic hasn't said any of this before
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It's pretty much true. If this wasn't true why are there so many friggin websites that say that most Americanized women are spoiled rotten and are only good for f-cking. And that Asian part, that's true! If they go primarily for white guys, it's only because Asian guys rejected them long ago. What does that say about her? That's why you see mostly dorky looking white guys with the Asian girl.

The only thing that I'd consider marrying a White American girl or any Americanized girl for that matter is if she knows how to suck a good one, if she's exciting in bed, sexually clean, knows how to cook, can actually hold an intellectual conversation without cutting me off and isn't easily influenced by her friends.

That's not too much to ask, is it.
 

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Some truth in that guy's blog (Black women have attitudes, Asians and whites are all in the same, jaded, and Latins plop down kids) there are always exceptions though. Even though it rings true, never let stuff like that hang you up, cause not matter what the basic rules still apply. If any broad gives you flack, just drop her and move on, its quite simple really.

You like what you like, believe what you believe, do your thing, and mind your own damn business.
 
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Originally posted by DJ_in_making
I think that was interesting...... every race has their own pros and cons, that's no reason to say STAY AWAY from a certain group.
Every where I go I also find a group of BLACK girls who will loudly laugh or crack jokes at me for absolutely no reason. But it's probably just a defense mechanism so who cares? I used to get unhappy, but just ignore them.....chicks do everything for attention.
I'm white. And where I work, black girls are the nicest and white girls are the meanest. Leave it up to the individual man. What's the point of just looking at a girl and deciding that she's **** because of her skin color when she could not be ****, even though she may have a higher chance of being **** than the next girl? That sounds like you're scared of rejection or something, major AFC. I mean, if you go up and she destroys you, you've lost nothing.

I also don't mind chicks ragging on me. It makes a challenge. It's called social skills.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm Black and I must say that I agree with most of the generalizations in the article. Asian americanized girls mostly seem to go for white guys. My best friend is chinese and has an easier time getting white chicks than asian chicks. It's almost like these chicks are trying to acheive some level of whiteness and dating white guys only is their way of doing it.

Black American girls have a lot of attitude and only seem to go for thug types. Nothing turns the average Black American girl off more than an educated well spoken black man. They'll accuse him of "acting white." Black chicks from different countrys are very different.

White chicks definatly seem to have the princess syndrome mainly because it's been pounded into their heads by the media and society that they are the pinnacle of beauty.

With this said, the keyword is generalizations. These are just generalizations and it would be unfair to lump a person into any catergory based on appearance. Until they prove you wrong give them a chance because you never know when you'll come across one of those exceptions.

From what I've seen latin girls who aren't americanized will only date latin guys. The americanized latin girls seem more open to dating all races.
 

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Originally posted by cazzie


Latinas. By far these are the best kind of women. I believe this is because the family is still ruled by the patriarch, who most likely came to the USA with only a few dollars in his pocket (at least isnt that how the story always goes?) They will give direct signals as to when they want you to approach. They will smile when they are interested. They will make direct eye contact without looking down or away like a shy robot. They do appreciate a man who takes charage, and, in my experience, they will offer to pay and they will pay their half of the bill. This is not to say that they cant Americanize. I find some Puerto Rican women to be very shrewd. But on average, I'd have to say that latinas are more family oriented than any other kind.

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^^real talk...If I snag me one here down south( A good latina woman at that..)..then u will never see my face in the game again...period(long story)...i would just quit playin the game, period...(long story again)
 

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well i am black and have to agree with mostly sad about the article. Black women are mostly rude and don't know how to treat men or respect men and the reason why is because they have more children out of wedlock than any other race. No father figure so that's a key point there but black women from other countries are totally different.
 

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Sometimes the stuff in the article is true, but the bottom line is that women are women. You have women that are hard to get with and one's that do all the work for you. The thing with all women is to let them no they can get with the program or leave. If they want a man that will take care of business and treat them with respect while not getting disrespected, they can stay; if not, they can go about their sad lives till they settle for someone you know can't get on your level.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kind of agree

with his statement about Latin women, I find them very much to my liking. Latin women are more likely to be in line with my values and way of doing things. Of course, that is a generalization and there is plenty of Latin women I cannot stand.

I've had a very different experience with black women. They usually give me the benefit of the doubt when I say something stupid and they are rarely rude to me. I've seen some crazy black women, but they tend to avoid me.

I'd hate to see anyone cut himself short by judging based on race. Basically, I'm not ruling any women out of my game on a wholesale basis. I just don't find a lot black women that attractive. On the other hand, with more black women converting to straight hair and such, this is starting to change.
 

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What a racist *****

I saw he put black women have horrible attidudes, wtf no they dont.

And another thing dont call pakistan pakis, thats harsh, its like calling a black person a nigga, i would never do that.
 

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The real problem

is that a lot of women in impoverished, undereducated, crime ridden communities are a pain the in a$$ to deal with. Doesn't matter if it's a white trash trailer special or a public housing ghetto momma. There is many women in these environments that can be tough to deal with, along with some sweethearts.

Of course, the ***** shield can be tough to pass with women from highly successful extremes, too. I think the ***** shield on the high end is easier, because once you pass it there is more hope.
 
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