“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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White women aren't nearly as bad as they are portrayed.

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yep, I don't like either and I pay for both, so you're welcome.
I don't care for people in general, its too bad cause I actually do have a good heart. I don't trust them and prefer to remain a lone wolf.

People talk crap about it to me bragging about how they have families and kids which I think is a joke.

I'm trying to become a legend....if I wanted to be average I could of done that years ago
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Of course. My GF told me straight up she isn't dating men her age because they are broke !

However, i think the difference is Von, that yes, she, and other Asian girls don't pick me and men for their looks. It is much more pragmatic - how will I survive? How will my children be provided for? Of course, an asian girl likes a rich western man. That has been the deal between a lot of men, and a lot of women, for millenia.

However, although they are somewhat "gold digger".....I know a lot of her friends who married western men, and none are divorced. It doesn't seem to be "marry and steal money" type giold digging, more "I want a rich BF" type.
How do you spend money on her? I doubt you literally hand her cash, do you?
 
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If I want coffee, yes. usually I buy her stuff but she's bought quite a lot of stuff for me too.

If I have a good month I'll prob be generous. We aren't talking big bucks, just clothing mainly and I'll take her out places to eat etc.

I can understand this thinking because if you are pragmatic, as a woman who wants a succesfull family, a more established man is low risk for them. I'm not 25 and going around "hanging out" with a ton of young women, She has less chance of being dumped later on. She also knows that I have greater general experience to help her.

The other thing is, how do you pay for things as a couple? Ive always thought % of income is the most fair. So, If I make 10,000 and she makes 2,000, and the bills are 1,200, I have no issues paying 10% of my salary and her paying 10% of hers. The other solution is to make each persons money available to each other, which is where arguments start.

Men earn more than women because we often apply ourselves to career more vigoously so generally if you have a woman, she will always benefit. She doesn't need to manipulate you, even just by cohabiting she is better off, and so am I.

One of my really red pill mates recently said he broke up with a GF because is she moved in, he wanted her to get a better paying job because he was 50/50 all the way. This chick was quite poor and he is very well off. I thought this is extreme.
Yea I don't even mind spending money on a girl. If she's worth having around, it's my decision. I think most hot girls expect it whether they're worth it or not.
 

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Gentleman, please make the distinction between "white" and "western". A brown skinned girl raised in the west is very much the same thing. So, from hereafter, I will refer to my own kind as "western" and not "white".

Having extensive XP points with many races....all I can say is from my own experience.

- Western women are less materialistic than the many others - but this is from a guys perspective. They are just as into their iphones and makeup, but I would say, all things being equal, a western woman looks to a man less for these things. They are more looks/sex focussed than many other races. However, that's in the relationship. There is no social shame here for going single mum and kicking out Dad, so in a way they can and will cost more. Difference is, nearly every girl I dated who wasn't western really likes gifts and stuff. Even if it's silly, cheap ****.

- A western woman is significantly more independent. Is she upset about something? Even if she isn't, damn right one ofher girlfriends has some sort of a problem. Her social group will weild more influence then non-western women.

- Much less preoccupation with family and kids. With most of my western exs, they were the ones freaking out about kids. Career? My body? As if it's some massive thing for them to proceate, as if it's an unreasonable thing to expect a woman to want that (except women hitting the wall)

- However.whatever weird **** makes western women tick, I'm either unwilling or unable to work out. A friend of mine confessed his daughters boufriend sent her flowers and she freaked "What does it mean Dad?" !! He agreed with that girls (westernised) are weird as hell. To think of the reaction some of my eastern European exs...they would be over the moon.

- Western woman seem to have a penchant for bad treatment. This can be summed up by the reaction of one of my exes....I was a little drunk and said something warmly affectionate. She freaked out and said "Yes but I can always find a man to tell me this, it'sworthless" Freak!

Whatever it is, the skills for western women are very difficult. For everyone else, it's mainly old school and easy.

One thing that strikes me is the willingless of non-western women to actually.....well, please you. I mean., doesn't have some stick up her backside about doing anything for a man. My ex ex was Polish and she would offer to serve guests drink and cook. I was taken back by this.
Bravo dude!

You nailed most of it!

The distinction could also be made for those which were raised here, but raised with a non-western upbringing. For example, my lady and her family spoke predominantly Japanese at home, she was expected to cook dinner each night for her family, and do her brother's laundry, not allowed to really go out, but they also supported her through college and helping to buy a home.

I knew they were old school when I went over there recently and talked with her dad, who's English is not very good at all. He said "I can't retire. What am I going to do? Women take care of the home, and I don't have anything to do. I need to work" He still does landscaping 5 days at week and is 78.

One of the best ways to filter a woman's values is through her family, which is mainly why I try to meet them within the first year of dating.
 

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Spanish/Italian/Greek/parts of middle east like Armenia and Turkey >>>>>>>>> Medium to light skin white girls


Beautiful black hair
Beautiful olive complexion
Way more curves/ass/tits
Nope!

First of all, if what you say is true then why do men from those parts of the world chase Northern European women like a bunch of thirsty predators? Often resorting to rape to get one, these are facts. At the same time you don't see Northern European men chasing after the kinds of women you describe at all.

The next thing, these women have the biggest egos on the planet. Italian women are full of themselves and have an ego that makes American women come off as down to earth. It is no wonder men from those parts of the world are so sleazy and chase after tourist women so much, because their women are prudes with out of touch egos.

I would actually say Middle Eastern and Southern European women are among the worst on this planet.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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