"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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White trash girl too

DJinTraining06

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This other girl hasnt been after me for months too. She's kind of white trashy tho. Nice body, not bad lookin at all. Really tuff acting tho, voice is deep as hell, shes 26 but appears to be 36. I dunno if its the smoking, the sun, or her voice butshe seems old. Regardless she's pretty hot and actusally kinda nice. Is she datign material, or should i just get some? Shell definatelyyyyyy give it up! I just hate using girls for sex. she always talks bout her ex b's and stuff, she dated them long term, so i think she wants to go out not just have fun.

What shall i do?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What happened to the bulldog looking chick that you wanted to give you a BJ?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What happened to the bulldog looking chick that you wanted to give you a BJ?
There's 2. Actually i have all these girls i dont want after me. Its the weirdest thing. Cuz im reall not that picky. Maybe im just too freindly with the ugs for my own good. Cuz they like agressively go after me. They ask me out sometimes. The trashy one is hot, i just dont want a relationship wit her. She does tho so i dunnoif i should use her fo sex.

It makes me wonder if im just king of the ugs, or if im really a good looking guy. Girls r always commenting on my eyes, but i cant seem to get the girls i want, or keep them. Im really gettin frustrated.
 

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It's not a bad thing to chat up general women but once you start hooking up with UGs your reputation will reflect it and you will continue to get their aggressive attention.
 

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Oh I like it how my post gets deleted. What's this bullsh.t. Standing up for Whites is against SS policy?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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[R]eality said:
Oh I like it how my post gets deleted. What's this bullsh.t. Standing up for Whites is against SS policy?

I am white, i am not agaisnt my own race,lol. U never heard the white trash expression? if naything in my opinion the term - white trash is racist against anyone whos not white. Cuz basically what its implying is that only minorities r trashy, if a white person is trashy they must be specifically called white trash. I lawyas found that odd.
 
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