I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually I was talking to a black guy about this and he says he is EMBARASSED at the violence that was caused by the Ferguson situation. I mean houses and stores were burned down and the most ironic part is black people owned them.Fatal Jay said:mods locked this thread, thanks
These white cowards only talk behind a screen anyway.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hands OUT of your pockets, sir.Fatal Jay said:mods locked this thread, thanks
These white cowards only talk behind a screen anyway.
Continuously posting anti white? Lololol I'm not the one constantly creating race threads. Get it straight. Its the typical group on the AE forum always creating threads about black people to stir things up. Just look at the threads on the first couple pages that have been locked recently. Fatal Jay makes the mistake though of getting sucked into these pointless flame wars.Mauser96 said:He was a bad apple, no doubt.
But do you think you continuously posting anti-white stuff on here helps or hinders?
You suggest censorship instead of discussion? mao,stalin,hitler and pol pot would agree I guess.Jaylan said:Continuously posting anti white? Lololol I'm not the one constantly creating race threads. Get it straight. Its the typical group on the AE forum always creating threads about black people to stir things up. Just look at the threads on the first couple pages that have been locked recently. Fatal Jay makes the mistake though of getting sucked into these pointless flame wars.
I don't need to waste time creating such threads. If you want to ask about what help or hinders, ask the mods about how SS has a race thread policy that's loosely enforced and allows these same arguments to happen all the time
Oh no, you definitely don't waste time creating race bait threads, you sneaky afro-troll:Jaylan said:I don't need to waste time creating such threads. If you want to ask about what help or hinders, ask the mods about how SS has a race thread policy that's loosely enforced and allows these same arguments to happen all the time
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dillon Taylor was a white victim mentioned and that thread was about police killings in general. I did not focus on black v white like the typical AE trolls. I highlighted trigger happy liar cops who've unnecessarily killed people (be they white or black). Work on your reading comprehension skills.Bokanovsky said:Oh no, you definitely don't waste time creating race bait threads, you sneaky afro-troll:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=219055
Jaylan said:So white guys can open carry guns into stores and restaurants all over the US, yet another a black man is gunned down by police who instantly jumped to conclusions that this particular man was dangerous enough to not even confront him before shooting.
Jaylan said:And last, this week's episode of Racial Profiling in the Good Ole USA. Instead of checking with store employee's where this man just left, the police instead arrest him and deny him of his rights. Seriously, all cops had to do was check the man's receipt, talk to people who just saw him leave the store, or give a quick look at any camera footage.
Deflect, deflect, change subject, defect, blame whitey. Familiar tactics.Jaylan said:Lol riiiiight . I make a thread three months ago highlighting black and white victims and you're all upset. Yet I see no condemnation for the continual threads for the usual race trolls on AE. Let's be honest bro...you have no problem with race flaming when your buddies create whiny black people threads week after week.
Lol enjoy. Like I said before... Its convenient how dudes create these race threads and ignore the nasty elements in society like John Burge. Guys like him in positions of power help perpetuate the cycle you lot complain about... Yet I see no focus on the numerous people in society like him.
I look forward the next AE installment in the "white bros crying about black people" series.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Jaylan don't worry about him, it's an old white tactic. Whenever you post about injustice of blacks, then they say why are you posting anti white stuff.Jaylan said:Continuously posting anti white? Lololol I'm not the one constantly creating race threads. Get it straight. Its the typical group on the AE forum always creating threads about black people to stir things up. Just look at the threads on the first couple pages that have been locked recently. Fatal Jay makes the mistake though of getting sucked into these pointless flame wars.
I don't need to waste time creating such threads. If you want to ask about what help or hinders, ask the mods about how SS has a race thread policy that's loosely enforced and allows these same arguments to happen all the time