"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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White Knight Syndrome / Eye Contact

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i came across this term from reading one of Wyldfire posts
and it occured to me, that bloody hell this was me

i'm suffering from the white knight syndrome. i'm alwa shaving dreams if rushing in and saving a girl from trouble and her adoring me afterwards

is this showing some insecurity i have?

ps i'm slightly drunk so i dunno if ill think i'm being a dumbass next morning ;)

second question, whenever i'm looking at a girls' eyes i find i'm always looking at their right eye

anything wrong with that?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hahaha
i guess i was a little more drunk than i thought

i do'nt really care if i am attracted to the meeker chicks

it's no biggie

and as for the eye contact, i find that just looking at one eye and her flicking between both my eyes seems like i'm in "control" of something
 
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