White Knight encounter

[zinc4]

Encountered an annoying white knight Saturday night...was with a girl i met randomly at the bar who was DTF and was going to go home with me and we had already been making out the entire night and such...but at one point she couldn't find her friend who was paired off with a guy friend...after walking around for 20 mins looking for them, i was like who cares, they are probably off banging somewhere and she got all angry and told me her friend is a virgin and that the guy she was with is just her guy friend nothing romantic at all and said her friend doesn't like the guy like that....i said poor guy...

And she said she wouldn't care if her friend weren't a virgin and then started acted angry toward me for getting annoyed by having to wait....and that she had to stay for her and then told me if you want to go it's ok...and repeated this several times even yelling at one point...and i really found this to be annoying because we had already planned to go back and i could have most likely still taken her home at that point

but i told myself, there are so many hot girls here at the club i don't need to tolerate crap like this, so i looked at her and i said thanks for wasting 3 hours of my time ***** , i could have been meeting lot's of other women by now...scianaro and walked off...she was flabergasted.

When i get into the club the guy friend sees me and says where is our friend all panicking and stuff...i told him she is a grown woman i am sure she is fine, we had a bit of an argument but she is outside looking for you guys....

Then this guy turns and looks at me and gives his a lady friend who was just using him as an orbiter a look of disgust...and he tells me that is not cool man that is just so not cool you were supposed to stay with her...i looked at him and i said, why don't you quit wasting your time with this virgin over here and come get some actual action with me? And he and his friend stormed off.....

Incidentally, i pulled a pretty hot HB7.5 after that but drove around in a taxi with her for about 45 mins looking for a hotel that wasn't booked...could not find one and at that point she got frustrated and called a guy friend and told me that is why she prefers Taiwanese guys because they are always prepared...i laughed and exited the taxi without paying and got another...went home...banged a plate following morning.

 

[TheFapPrince]

Your life is interesting.

 

[zinc4]

nah, just club a lot on the weekends...i need to stop though, it is killing my liver and nervous system...

 

[TheException]

Post seems more about your lack of control(frustration) than the white knight chump.

but at one point she couldn't find her friend who was paired off with a guy friend.

lol chicks are like flocks man. This^ always happens. Im almost coming to the conclusion that i actually would prefer NOT TO ISOLATE and just run the entire group.

i was like who cares, they are probably off banging somewhere and she got all angry

Obviously, i dont like that line. No doubt you were annoyed if you are wandering for 20 mins, but there are other ways than to blurt out a frustrated line, that no doubt got translated to her hamster as: "hey woman! Im sick of looking for your friend, lets go home and bang already"....little too desperate and outcome dependent. I would prefer either the silent walk off aka "oops i got lost" or the simple "Im going to grab a drink, ill be over at the bar" then start talking to other people.

i looked at her and i said thanks for wasting 3 hours of my time *****

Chumpy^

and he tells me that is not cool man that is just so not cool you were supposed to stay with her

Could be a chump....could be a friend. Its irrelevant.

Just relax...you have to remain unaffected by sh1t. Everything should be "not a big deal". Remember you certainly dont have to deal with the sh1t you mentioned above....but how you DONT HANDLE it matters. Elect for the cool and indifferent....maybe she would have texted you to come over after her friends got home. That late text happens more than you think.

 

[zinc4]

Exception, i can see where your thinking is coming from but this chick was NOT my primary target that night..

I was just dealing with her because she was a sure thing after small talking to her at another club and she and her friends followed me to this 2nd club.....i wanted to bang her quickly at a hotel and be back to the club in time to find a better looking chick...i have done it before here and it is not that difficult if you are in a good zone of chatting people up....and closing time at 2nd club is a big time meat market...

I was frustrated because it was getting near closing time at the club and i was wanting to go find other chicks with each passing minute....my original plan was to go to a hotel and bang her and be back to the club in time to find another one....so yes, i was frustrated because of how long it was taking that would have been impossible...she was only a HB 7 so losing her wasn't that huge of a deal to me you are misunderstand the reasons for my frustration...i was already a little ticked off that an average looking chick was chewing up that much of my time...

The chump thing to do would have to play nice and wait around for her the entire night settling for a HB 7 when i have plates that i can call over at almost any time that look better than her or to even walk off silently hoping to get a text from her later.......and i have zero desire to bang her in the future...it would have been a drunken one time deal...i already have several plates that look a good bit better than her...like i said, she was only a HB7 and the place was crawling with hb 8s and 8.5s...

I still could have easily played nice and non chalant and went with her and banged her still if i wanted to and would have if she were a HB 8.5 or so.......but i wanted to meet a hotter one that night as well and wasn't going to tolerate waiting for her when there were HB 8s and 8.5s everywhere open for gaming....

The HB 7.5 i went back with in the taxi was a good bit hotter than the first one...and she proved to be a minimal time investment.....i just couldn't find a hotel to save my life...

when you know you have other options you can speak out to a woman for wasting your time if you have zero desire to see her again in the future...game goes out the window at that point just like how i would verbally chastise one of my students who was wasting my time and being annoying...

 

[cordoncordon]

Exception, i can see where your thinking is coming from but this chick was NOT my primary target that night..

I was just dealing with her because she was a sure thing after small talking to her at another club and she and her friends followed me to this 2nd club.....i wanted to bang her quickly at a hotel and be back to the club in time to find a better looking chick...i have done it before here and it is not that difficult if you are in a good zone of chatting people up....and closing time at 2nd club is a big time meat market...

I was frustrated because it was getting near closing time at the club and i was wanting to go find other chicks with each passing minute....my original plan was to go to a hotel and bang her and be back to the club in time to find another one....so yes, i was frustrated because of how long it was taking that would have been impossible...she was only a HB 7 so losing her wasn't that huge of a deal to me you are misunderstand the reasons for my frustration...i was already a little ticked off that an average looking chick was chewing up that much of my time...

The chump thing to do would have to play nice and wait around for her the entire night settling for a HB 7 when i have plates that i can call over at almost any time that look better than her.......and i have zero desire to bang her in the future...it would have been a one time deal...i already have several plates that look a good bit better than her...like i said, she was only a HB7...

I still could have easily played nice and non chalant and went with her and banged her still if i wanted to and would have if she were a HB 8.5 or so.......but i wanted to meet a hotter one that night as well and wasn't going to tolerate waiting for her when there were HB 8s and 8.5s everywhere open for gaming....

The HB 7.5 i went back with in the taxi was a good bit hotter than the first one...and she proved to be a minimal time investment.....i just couldn't find a hotel to save my life...

when you know you have other options you can speak out to a woman for wasting your time if you have zero desire to see her again in the future...game goes out the window at that point just like how i would verbally chastise one of my students who was wasting my time and being annoying...

This is not meant as a criticism but rather as a opinion about how you are living your life and the wastefulness that I see in it.

I have read various posts from you over the past few months and have come to realize something about you. Is this is what your life has come down to? Trying to pick up random slvts at the bar 3-4 nights a week? Having a need to fvck a girl no matter the cost, the aggravation, the deprivation? There is so much more to life than random skanks and getting plastered all of the time. Aren't you sick and tired of it?

The reason why I say this is because you seem like a smart guy. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders. And the life you are leading seems to me to be a road to nowheresville. It's basically just living week to week, getting wasted, and banging randoms who may or may not be attractive.

If you spent even half the time in your life devoted to your career or fitness or something constructive that you do chasing these girls? You would go very very far I am sure. Don't get me wrong, if the way you are living your life makes you happy, then by all means continue. But I am of the opinion that you are living this life because deep down you are rather unhappy, and are just looking for day to day moments of drunken debauchery to pass the time and to provide some excitement for you, all to mask the emptiness and sadness that you are really feeling.

 

[zinc4]

Hahaha, i knew you would comment on this Concordon and say something to this affect....

There is a little truth to what you say, but i only get drunk once or twice at most a week and go out clubbing strictly on the weekends, not 3-4 times...

Back in my younger days, i got married prematurely and have felt like i wasted 3 years of my life in a relationship when i was mean't to be single at the time and am trying to make up for those lost years i guess....

But i put most of my effort by far into my longfist kungfu studies and so far have been very successful at it as a result......that is where most of my time and energy goes to...not gaming women believe it or not....that is a strictly a weekend activity, gaming women...unless i cold approach while on the way to work int he daytime of course...

although i do agree that i need to stop clubbing so much on the weekends as it does hinder my progress and admittedly banging random chicks does tend to get old after a while...but it's still fun for me right now to let loose on the weekends after a long week of work and practice...and i will stop once i find zero pleasure in it.....

But this is all off topic, we are talking about the WK guy here who was being used as an emotional sponge by 2 chicks while really hoping to bang the virgin one...

 

[cordoncordon]

Hahaha, i knew you would comment on this Concorodion and say something to this affect....

There is a little truth to what you say, but i only get drunk once or twice at most a week and go out clubbing, not 3-4 times...

Back in my younger days, i got married prematurely and have felt like i wasted 3 years of my life in a relationship when i was mean't to be single at the time and am trying to make up for those lost years i guess....

But i put most of my effort by far into my longfist kungfu studies and am the most advanced student in my group of classmates......that is where most of my time and energy goes to...not chasing women believe it or not..

although i do agree that i need to stop clubbing so much on the weekends as it does hinder my progress and admittedly banging random chicks does tend to get old after a while...but it's still fun for me right now and i will stop once i find zero pleasure in it.....

But this is all off topic, we are talking about the WK guy here who was being used as an emotional sponge by 2 chicks while really hoping to bang the virgin one...

Understood.

As for what happened that night....no doubt he is a WK. However those are too be expected when clubs, testosterone, girls, and alcohol all come together. You just have to ignore them and go on with your game. I think your original mistake was walking around with her for 20 minutes trying to find them. That is way too much time to be towed around like a sheep. IMO it made you come off as almost kind of a WK yourself, which probably lowered your value in her eyes. You would have been better off helping her search for at most 5 minutes, and upon not finding them after that, just tell her that you are "going to go talk to some friends of yours, you would love to hang out some more though, so if/when you find your friends, come find me".

That way you at least put in some effort to help her, but at the same time you differentiate yourself from every other WK in the club who would follow her to the sewers if need be, all in the hopes of getting laid.

Live and learn.

 

[zinc4]

right on Bradd...

no one was following to the sewers concordon haha...

it really wasn't that big of a deal......going home with her i mean...yeah, it was a waste of time walking around 20 mins, i should have bounced then would have given me more time to talk to other girls....but i was pretty buzzed and times flies when you are heavily buzzed...20 mins seems like 5 mins...

i still pulled another hotter chick than her I just couldn't find a hotel to take her to and ditched her because of her attitude...like i said it wasn't a big deal...

 

[cordoncordon]

gentlemen please let's not get personal animosity get in the way of a good story here. I too am of the conviction that being in long term "meaningful" relationships can be just as wasteful as banging random women on the weekend, if not even moreso.

I myself have been in relationships as long as 5 years and others of 1 to 2 years with some great women. But in the end, we're all judges of our own happiness. Guys who are currently in a good relationship are always trying to convince single dudes that their lives are somehow hollow and unhappy, not realizing that 99 percent of all relationships come to an end (including their own), one way or another. We no longer live in the same world as our parents or grandparents, where divorcees were looked upon as lepers. Today, it is almost the rule rather than the exception.

I don't think zinc was following this girl to the sewers, he simply picked up a chick that he wanted to bang, it took more effort than he intended, so he aborted the attempt. He showed us a great example with his attitude, and ended up picking up another girl. He didn't like her either and with a great attitude ditched her too.

Zinc, I think your attitude displayed was a great one. This story deserves a +1 one rep.

No animosity Brad. Zinc and I are fine.

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

The guy could have just been a friend or he could have been a chump trying to get laid by the virgin. If you met him before he's probably just a friend or an orbiter in the friend zone.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I see you OP, this is a typical club fact, lost the count of moments like this happened to me.

The b1tch which has to "find her friends" its a must in the club scene...as much as being pissed off from that by your part since you never know if her "friends" will c0ckblock you,take her away or she simply will change her mind to dont look like a slvt....sheepy b1tches.