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Originally posted by gatarado
What do asian girls really want? What are they doing with those skinny little afc losers?
maybe they want to speak their own language, which is better than english?.. and maybe not all those "skinny little afc losers" are as skinny, little, afc, or loser as you think.. haha

Originally posted by gatarado
I jsut dont see it happening no matter what he does. he coudl probably get an asian girl, but lindsey lohan or brooke burke, hell no.
well.. could you get lindsey lohan or brooke burke?
 

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Re: Re: Shut the hell up man....

Originally posted by ScrewIt
very true bro

it's all fvkin the media's fault. They portray the image they want to be seen...which are all the negative stereotypes of asians.

Cause of this, it creates an idea in everyone's head who's watched jacky chan or jet li or william hung and they go "ahh so the majority of asians know kung fu with bad english or are short ugly fvcks like hung"

Respect is all crap talk. We still dont get true respect. If we did, then, good looking asian guys that spoke proper english would star in NON-martial arts movies, with lead roles.
Um, the media is actually all that powerful, you know what they do, they pander to what people want to believe. You sound like you have a chip on your shoulder. Well, guess what, negative stereotypes are in general all that gets portrayed e.g. all Americans are dumb redneck racist fu(ks who come from Texas or beautiful blond bum boys from California. That all the English are whinging, wet, soppy, miserable tea drinking, cricket playing stuck up people. That all Germans are neo fascists, that all police are thugs. that all french are good cooks and are wimps (eg why did the french plant trees by the arc de triumph, the google joke with french military victories.)

The point is that if you succumb to these stereotypes then you are racist, or simply ignorant, although often the two mix very well together. My friends were all obssessed with jacky chan, that didnt mean they thought all asians could beat their arse.

Are there any good looking asian guys, well i wouldnt know, i dont think guys are good looking :D . What about good looking black people starring in movies apart from comedies, i mean look at like Will Smith, he is comic actor. The trouble is that Hollywood has to pander to a huge market and therefore they show them what they want and pander to stereotypes.

Respect is not all crap talk, i respect everyone (regardless of their appearance) until the individual gives me a reason not to respect them. Why dont you have the same attitude, the majority of people are not racist, they just have not experienced the world. Maybe the reason for this racism is America's insularity, i mean one in five people OWNING a passport, thats ****1n ridiculous, you should try and see the world.

Plus jakethasnake, i have no idea what you are on about, with native WHITE americans. There are no real natives to america, there has been wave after wave of immigration and slowly they will get assimilated. you can see the same thing has happened in Britain with Jews in the 14th and 20th centuries, with the Irish in the 16th - 19th century. More recently with Indians and Bangledeshis, Pakistanis, now Arabs and Eastern Europeans ae beginning to be assimiliated.

jakethasnake
I really think it's pathetic how you downplay the reality some of us bravely face every day that we get up, despite it's viciousness and unpleasantness. That is some shyt that you don't have to deal with as a member of the majority.

Telling me that I have a chip on my shoulder is like telling a young black male who consistently gets pulled over by cops for no reason to "chill out". Take that crap and shove it up your ass, bro. Give me a break.

I honestly don't think I'm being unreasonable - me and most other Asians just want respect - REAL respect - not just politically correct lip-service - but many people aren't willing to give it to us.
Jake, everyone deals with discrimination every day in their life, being a member of the majority you will also face discrimination, this thing known as positive discrimination (in fact even meritocracy is a form of discrimination) works against the majority. It is vicous and it is unpleasant, but so is life, you have to deal with it and work against it, it does not help if you reinforce stereotypes by saying that it is only minorities who face racism, look a Rwanda and what happened to the Tutsis. Hell, as people, will always be different, they will always face discrimination, i will face it trying to get into university becasue I choose to save the state money and go to a private school instead of stealing a place at a good grammer from some smart but poor kid. Do you know how that benefits me, the governmet has told universities to work on what type of school kids come from. I have too deal with it, so do you.

I agree with what you are saying but you in return shouldnt buy into stereotypes and have this chip about how we are all racist. Both sides here are guilty of generalisations and stereotyping.

No you are not being unreasonable and you have my respect, but you also have to show respect and not act like we are all guilty.
 

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Re: Shut the hell up man....

Originally posted by jakethasnake
STFU, bro.
I'm not your bro, if I were, I'd have beady little eyes and a 4 inch d1ck :D Haha, just kidding, couldn't resist! Anyways...


You don't know *anything* about Asians nor their existence. Having a couple of friends or having slept with a few doesn't qualify you to talk to me like that in any way whatsoever. I know white men and women married to Asians, and they're *still* learning new things about Asians and their various cultures/realities of life in America every day.
Excuse me? How would YOU know what I know about asians?? You have as much right to open your mouth and talk about the white man as I do about asians, so if you can shoot your mouth off don't even try to tell me I can't. I don't need to know all the ceremonail rituals or ancient history of asians to know about them, but I CAN speak from my years of experience surrounded by asians, and how their culture influences them.

The point I was making is that all asians and whites and whatever other race are still just people. Some will get along, some won't, and not ALL WHITES are against you Jake, so grow the fvck up, because your white bashing is old news on here.


I'll speak plainly now - all you need to know about me is that I am ALL ABOUT RESPECT. You get some, I expect in return. Was that simple enough for you? I hope so.
You know what, if that were the case I must have missed the part you wrote about respecting white guys. So far all I've ever seen from you is cheap shots at whitey. Maybe if you stopped with you obvious undercurrent of hatred for the white man, I would HAVE some respect for you. I think you're a pretty smart guy, but you've obviously got issues and some resentment for white guys. Who says girls are the only ones with baggage...


If Americans of all races learned to accept Asians and Asian-Americans as human beings instead of William Hung stereotypes and geisha girl/massage parlor ***** stereotypes, then I would be cool - just totally cool. But the simple fact is that most are ignorant fools, and furthermore fools that don't even bother to learn. Ask *any* person of color in this country to speak plainly, and they will tell you something similar.
Stop generalizing everyone. Although not American, I've never had that stereotype of asians myself and I'm white. I'm sure there are plenty of others that are like me who ARE American though. When you take shots at the white man you're also insulting ME, so where's MY respect Jake? What have *I* done to you or any asians that would justify your indirect anger towards me? Do you even see how you're only making things worse with all this hating?


I really think it's pathetic how you downplay the reality some of us bravely face every day that we get up, despite it's viciousness and unpleasantness. That is some shyt that you don't have to deal with as a member of the majority.
You know what, if it bothers you maybe you should do something positive to change it, instead of feeding the fire. Where I live here in Toronto, it's not really an issue. As soon as I leave the house I see Arab, Black, Asian, White, Latin, Indian, etc It's so common it becomes part of most peoples lives. I wouldn't have a problem starting an family with an asian girl in this country, because the amount of racism my kids would face is almost non existent. It's only people like YOU that carry these stereotypes and anger around and make things worse.


Telling me that I have a chip on my shoulder is like telling a young black male who consistently gets pulled over by cops for no reason to "chill out". Take that crap and shove it up your ass, bro. Give me a break.
Oh so it's that bad for you eh Jake, that you get discriminated everyday for being oriental? Have you ever considered that people's negative reaction to you might be because of the the vibe you send off?


I honestly don't think I'm being unreasonable - me and most other Asians just want respect - REAL respect - not just politically correct lip-service - but many people aren't willing to give it to us.
See, the irony here is that you had my respect until you opened your mouth and went off on whitey, basically grouping all whites in your negative remarks.
 

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Shut up....

I'm gonna ignore about 95% of the garbage in your post, Nimbus, and just address the 5% that is worth responding to. Your cheap shots were truly pathetic, and I'm not gonna stoop to your sad Canadian level. :D



All that crap you wrote above is nothing more than a "chicken versus the egg" argument. Am I reacting negatively because certain white people are trying to cut me down, or are they reacting negatively because I am being defensive? I have your answer right here, boy:



Here's the bottom line. When I meet a new person in real life, I make sure to give them a fair chance, but I am disappointed more often than not. That is all you need to know. Everything else you say - is pure unadulterated bull-shiznit and second-hand guesses. :rolleyes:



- Jake.





PS: Next time you have an argument with a black man, don't forget to remind him of how stupid and incapable he is. If you're gonna be racist (even in "jest", as you suggest), then maybe you should be an equal oppurtunity racist and knock Latinos for "being lazy", blacks for being "stupid and lazy" - instead of just knocking Asians for "having beady little eyes and 4-inch cokks". You sad little PRAT. :p
 

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Wow. There really is no intelligence on the internet...:(

Jaded is me~



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Originally posted by neobrood
oh btw, women who are a mix of ASIAN and CAUCASIAN are the most attractive of all... ;)
MESTIZA!!! WHOOHOO!!!!:D
 

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Re: Re: Re: Shut the hell up man....

Jake, everyone deals with discrimination every day in their life, being a member of the majority you will also face discrimination, this thing known as positive discrimination (in fact even meritocracy is a form of discrimination) works against the majority. It is vicous and it is unpleasant, but so is life, you have to deal with it and work against it, it does not help if you reinforce stereotypes by saying that it is only minorities who face racism, look a Rwanda and what happened to the Tutsis. Hell, as people, will always be different, they will always face discrimination, i will face it trying to get into university becasue I choose to save the state money and go to a private school instead of stealing a place at a good grammer from some smart but poor kid. Do you know how that benefits me, the governmet has told universities to work on what type of school kids come from. I have too deal with it, so do you.

I agree with what you are saying but you in return shouldnt buy into stereotypes and have this chip about how we are all racist. Both sides here are guilty of generalisations and stereotyping.

No you are not being unreasonable and you have my respect, but you also have to show respect and not act like we are all guilty.

Well said. But the truth is that asians make up 1/6th of the worlds population in China alone. They are the majority.

Jakethesnake, you are being just as racist as anyone. Maybe even more so. Calm yourself.


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Originally posted by XXXX
asian wannabes like filipinos, thais, humongs or indonesians?
another sad, misguided entity.. :rolleyes:

ASSOCIATION OF SOUTHEAST ASIAN NATIONS. bobo.
 

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"I look forward confidently to the day when all who work for a living will be one with no thought to their separateness as Negroes, Jews, Italians or any other distinctions. This will be the day when we bring into full realization the American dream -- a dream yet unfulfilled. A dream of equality of opportunity, of privilege and property widely distributed; a dream of a land where men will not take necessities from the many to give luxuries to the few; a dream of a land where men will not argue that the color of a man's skin determines the content of his character; a dream of a nation where all our gifts and resources are held not for ourselves alone, but as instruments of service for the rest of humanity; the dream of a country where every man will respect the dignity and worth of the human personality."-- Martin Luther King Jr.

"Many people are still bound by tradition; when the elder generation says "no" to something, then these other people will strongly disapprove of it as well. If the elders say that something is wrong, then they also will believe that it is wrong. They seldom use their mind to find out the truth and seldom express sincerely their real feelings. The simple truth is that these opinions on such things as racism are traditions, which are nothing more than a "formula" laid down by these elder people's experience. As we progress and time changes, it is necessary to reform this formula."-- Bruce Lee
"The modern definition of 'racist' is someone who is winning an argument with a liberal."-- Peter Brimelow


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Hehe, Bruce Lee spelled "traditions" wrong :D.


JaketheSnake, I have respect for you bro, but I also think that you are going overboard with the respect issue. If you want respect, just represent the race well.

Dark Nimbus, I think you should expand your conservative horizons a bit.


Back to the asian chicks,

I think a larger percentage of the hot ones are misguided nowadays - total slackoffs in school, and theres too many of them to compensate for the few smart and beautiful ones left.


Thats the only one thing I've never liked about the entire females species. Beautiful men still work hard, because men strive for success monetarily and intellectually. However, beautiful chicks can score all the rich men, so there is a void where ambition should be.

Hot damn, theres nothing like a pretty AND profound girl.
 

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It was hard to type and read at the same time. Plus, the italic button is tricky. Sue me why dont you?:p
 

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
It was hard to type and read at the same time. Plus, the itacic button is tricky. Sue me why dont you?:p
You actually took that from a book? Huge props bro - for quotations, I always get lazy and search up stuff from a website.
 

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Originally posted by California Love
You actually took that from a book? Huge props bro - for quotations, I always get lazy and search up stuff from a website.
I never copy and paste, I'd rather subject you all to my p!ss poor typing skills. ;)


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This girl that I want to date is asian.
she work in a store and we talk a lot but I freeze everytime I want to ask her out.
When i`m in front of her I just cant tell,if she like me or not.
Or maybe she think I dont like her,i`m not realy expresive.
and the fact that she stay in Montreal and come work in my town on week end dont realy help.but she should be in town most summer. :D
Any tips?
 

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You can disagree with me, or say that this is just cliche, but the stereotyping that has been brought up in this thread is the result of the media catering to the low-intelligence, small-brained people of America. Not saying that Americans are small brained, just that the U.S. is inarguably the media capital of the world and thus the media giants cater to the knuckle dragging, mouth-breathing people because, let's be honest boys, they do make up the majority. Not only in America, but in the whole world.


I know many kids who just don't have a hope in this world or a clue in their head whose lives revolve around Xbox, porn, and working at McDonalds. If your intellect was nurtured when you were young and you were blessed with the ambition to better yourself, congratulations. A mind is a terrible thing to waste and will always get you more girls than any adopted trait.


Now to stop myself from getting too far off track... Right now the media is glorifying the whole "gangsta/ghetto" subculture. Take for example 50 cent having one of the best selling albums of all times, and shows like "Pimp my ride" and "Doggy Fizzle Televizzle" exploding onto the market (Going back 5 or 10 years I couldn't see this trend catching on with anyone whatsoever.) Because of this, the black "bling bling" trend has caught on and girls of other races have fallen in love with the glamourized black male rapper/bball player/gangsta (case in point - Montreal). This ofcourse only represents a very small minority of black men but since the trend does not include the collared shirt wearing black kids who get straight A's, they feel the need to transform and portray the image given off as "the way real blacks are." Not true at all but I digress.


On the other end of the spectrum are the Asian males that have yet to really catch a break in this department. I can't guarantee that they are up next for glorification, but trends move in repetitive cycles and in a couple years when the gangsta image blows over, it will leave room for another "sub-culture" to arise to whom all the pretty girls will flock.


Then again any good DJ should be able to transcend race as they epitomize the ideal male, unlike the AFC's in costume trying to win women by taking notes from MTV.


That being said, I know very little about the differences between white and asian girls because in my high school of 1000+ there are like 5 asian kids and only two black kids believe it or not.
 

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Good points Joe Boxer, but it aint like everyone is shallow. Hell, we still in high school but theres plenty of mature and prudent people around. The same goes for girls - not all the pretty ones are mindless sheep.
 

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Re:

Well as a Singporean myself, I've noticed that the ideal guy for an asian(or more specifically chinese) and a white girl is rather different. So, does that mean most DJ tecniques can't be applied?
 

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So, does that mean most DJ tecniques can't be applied?
DJ techniques are world class... Apply them to any woman anywhere in the world.

Thats what I was thinkin at first tho. But after I used em in some party... with Filipino chicks (I'm filipino too) who still got Filipino culture fresh in their heads...

and oh yeah... the results were NOT disappointing... :)

In fact, I think my skillz multiplied by 10x... as compared to communicating with a white girl or any other race that doesnt speak my native tongue... :)
 

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JoE BoXeR, not all Americans are like that. Just a few people with big mouths, thats all. It is the same in every single country in the world. Michael Moore and Oprah Winfrey are full of sh!t, so stop taking their words to heart.

I am an American.


"DJ techniques are world class... Apply them to any woman anywhere in the world. "-- Neobrood
Well said.


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