"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What is the deal here?
I have just noticed a few things about this type of relationship between the white girls and black men that I thought I might share.
Being a black man that likes thin women is not something that's very common in the US, everybody assumes that I like a girl with a big ass, or junk in the trunk, which is not true.
I don't really look at race as an important factor when I look at a girl, I am really looking for a certain body type. White women in general seem to have that kind of body that I like, it doesnt mean that I only like white women, there are just more white women with the kind of physique I like. I am really not too much into very pretty faces either.
Considering all this, I have just noticed a few things.
For you guys that might come up with arguments proving that I am wrong, I know that there is no absolute truth, the truth is only what's more predominant.
Most white girls I see with black guys just seem not to fit in the white world.
They are either:
-overweight
-ugly
-drug addicts
-prostitutes
-or just seem not to care about what people think.
I do know that most black guys like a woman with a few extra pounds, and white guys in general just dont.
Do overweight white women date black guys because they cant get attention from white men or do overweight white women date black guys because they dont care about what society thinks.
Why do the big white girls pay more attention to me than any other kind of women when I am not attracted to overweight women of any race?
Why is it so hard to see a black guy with one those skinny white girls that look so good in those tight pants?
Is it because when white girls gain weight, they just automatically want a black guy, and when they loose weight they want a white guy.
Doesnt make sense, who you are attracted to doesnt change based on how much you weigh.
Do they date black guys out of desperation or do they date black guys because they really wanted a black guy.
Why do I never see a black celebrity date one of those white celebrities.
Is it possible that off all the white women that are celebrities from singers, journalist, actresses etc, not one really just wanna date a black guy, or is it because they think too much about how much impact that would have on their careers?
Is America racist that much? Not being American, some the things I see in this conutry just seem to make me wonder a bit.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This came up while talking with a few friends. Although I don't believe it's truly racial, I do believe that it's a common preference between certain types of people.
 

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black guys attract GHETTO white girls - alot of who ACT black in the first place.

Also don't mistake the puerto rican/hispanic girl who LOOKS white (with a tan) who is with a black guy, cuz latino's date blacks very often.

to truly see a WHITE white girl with a BLACK black guy is almost impossible

also notice that white guys who act black (aka ghetto) attract hispanic/puerto rican/ghetto white girls

BOTTOM LINE - physical color is no longer an issue in society, and people go for the opposite sex with the ATTITUDE that best first them (ghetto with ghetto, non-ghetto with non-ghetto, preppy with preppy, punk with punk, goth with goth, ect ect ect)

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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