"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whistling: Trills and vibrato

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Hello,

This question has nothing to do with women or anything, but does anybody know how to make vibrato when you whistle? I suck at it, but I'd really like to learn. Please help if you know how. Thank you!!

Izza
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Haha, I can't believe I'm answering this...

I can do this pretty well, its hard to explain. Basically I start whistling normally with my tounge firmly against my bottom two teeth. Then I kinda inflate my cheeks a little and keep blowing while moving my tounge back and forward. Seems to do the trick
 

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I'm giving it a try, and it seems to be working ok. I'll let you know how it develops.

Thanks a lot (weird question, eh?)

Izza

PS I'm trying to learn to do a "double whistle" right now, where you put your tongue in the center of your lips and blow out both sides in harmony. Now THAT is hard!

Izza
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You trying to be the next Roger Whittaker, Izza?
 

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Vulpine said:
You trying to be the next Roger Whittaker, Izza?
I wouldn't mind :)

Can't think of a screenname: I love a capella music - King's singers, Swingle singers - I should get on that. I'd be like one of the four fair guys from Charlotte's web. I probably shouldn't confess my amazing memory for Disney movie's on this forum...
 
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