"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Which would you choose: Girls or Money?

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Speculator E said:
The reason I ask is b/c I've been focusing on my career for the past few months with no time for women. I've been passing on lots of opportunities to the point where the temptation is starting to get to me. But you're all absolutely right. There's plenty of other fishes in the sea.

Well thing is, its all about balance. So maybe if you've been focusing only your career the last few months you should compromise some of that time and invest it in your social life. However, with a better job offer, these opportunities aren't as guaranteed so it might be worth taking the new job first, make a good impression with working hard the first month and then pull back a little so you have time for other things. Someone who puts all their time into their social life and don't bother getting a job are looked down upon as lazy people, society would rather you be someone who puts everything into your career, but I don't think either option is particularly healthy because you're relying on one thing to make you happy when there are lots of things that can make you happy if you balance work and play.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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