Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
"It's ALWAYS white people"...Jaylan said:Btw are you and Atom white? Because its weird how its always white people online or in the real world trying to say how other races behave due to their racial background.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just do exactly as I have and don't even bother with her. Unfortunately she's hopeless.Atom Smasher said:You missed my point.
On another note, I do believe that you epitomize the "us vs them" syndrome in the way you introduce conflict into anything that hints of gender and/or race.
When you have that much anger and ego invested in your argument, people are going to be less inclined to hear you.
bolded.Atom Smasher said:You missed my point.
On another note, I do believe that you epitomize the "us vs them" syndrome in the way you introduce conflict into anything that hints of gender and/or race.
Yes oh yes. I epitomize thisI could see how you would think that considering I dont join in and agree with the typical views of this board. Excuse me, as a logical thinking person, for trying to bring an alternate viewpoints to this board that is mostly filled with what I perceive as self defeating banter most of the time.
I am not the only one here who holds the viewpoints I present. However, I seem to be one of the few who chooses to continually stay behind his position when met with the hostility and insults of regular posters here. This is not China, this is not a communist state. Though it seems many here would be happy stifling any comments that dont repeat the typical SS mantra, which seems to have changed over the years.
When you have that much anger and ego invested in your argument, people are going to be less inclined to hear you.
Most peoples posts here that disagree with me on any topic, those are most definitely filled with anger and ego. So much ego and falso machismo that these guys need to try and take a dig at me by calling me a female. Which is kinda funny and sad at the time time. But its all good. The only reason noone ever calls those posts out for anger and ego is because it plays into the homogenized opinion of this forum.
In bold.C-quenced said:There should have been a vote for "all of the above". All women regardless of race are susceptible to being filthy *****s. It's all a matter of culture and upbringing.
True that. Hey look, we can agree on something.
Just do exactly as I have and don't even bother with her. Unfortunately she's hopeless.
Lmao....you really need to try something original broski![]()
Im replying to this but get it as a reply for all, yes Im white actually Im a white male (just to make clear my sex as well).Jaylan said:In the bold.
Btw are you and Atom white? Because its weird how its always white people online or in the real world trying to say how other races behave due to their racial background. How does it make logical sense to think that determines how someone turns out when you see kids of different backgrounds grow up in neighborhoods together and turn out like one another most of, if not all the time.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.