Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
"It's ALWAYS white people"...Jaylan said:Btw are you and Atom white? Because its weird how its always white people online or in the real world trying to say how other races behave due to their racial background.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Just do exactly as I have and don't even bother with her. Unfortunately she's hopeless.Atom Smasher said:You missed my point.
On another note, I do believe that you epitomize the "us vs them" syndrome in the way you introduce conflict into anything that hints of gender and/or race.
When you have that much anger and ego invested in your argument, people are going to be less inclined to hear you.
bolded.Atom Smasher said:You missed my point.
On another note, I do believe that you epitomize the "us vs them" syndrome in the way you introduce conflict into anything that hints of gender and/or race.
Yes oh yes. I epitomize thisI could see how you would think that considering I dont join in and agree with the typical views of this board. Excuse me, as a logical thinking person, for trying to bring an alternate viewpoints to this board that is mostly filled with what I perceive as self defeating banter most of the time.
I am not the only one here who holds the viewpoints I present. However, I seem to be one of the few who chooses to continually stay behind his position when met with the hostility and insults of regular posters here. This is not China, this is not a communist state. Though it seems many here would be happy stifling any comments that dont repeat the typical SS mantra, which seems to have changed over the years.
When you have that much anger and ego invested in your argument, people are going to be less inclined to hear you.
Most peoples posts here that disagree with me on any topic, those are most definitely filled with anger and ego. So much ego and falso machismo that these guys need to try and take a dig at me by calling me a female. Which is kinda funny and sad at the time time. But its all good. The only reason noone ever calls those posts out for anger and ego is because it plays into the homogenized opinion of this forum.
In bold.C-quenced said:There should have been a vote for "all of the above". All women regardless of race are susceptible to being filthy *****s. It's all a matter of culture and upbringing.
True that. Hey look, we can agree on something.
Just do exactly as I have and don't even bother with her. Unfortunately she's hopeless.
Lmao....you really need to try something original broski![]()
Im replying to this but get it as a reply for all, yes Im white actually Im a white male (just to make clear my sex as well).Jaylan said:In the bold.
Btw are you and Atom white? Because its weird how its always white people online or in the real world trying to say how other races behave due to their racial background. How does it make logical sense to think that determines how someone turns out when you see kids of different backgrounds grow up in neighborhoods together and turn out like one another most of, if not all the time.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.