"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Which songs, for you, Define Hip hop?

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I'm not really into hip hop, more into dance/ drum 'n' bass, but the songs that i do like from that genre, i REALLY like.

I'm not talking bout the current **** with the *****es dancing around in the videos, but the old skool artists that make music for their genuine passion of it, not for the money.

Personally, for me, it would have to be:

DJ Jazzy Jeff - For Da Love Of Da Game http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YhrMk8I3zwk

Will Smith - Summer time
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B.I.G. - Sky's the Limit
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jedi Mind Tricks, Brother Ali, Atmosphere...that kind of sh*t.
 
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I consider them rappers but here goes, they define rap for me in their own ways, I'll also add in things you should check out from them, because they are some of the best hiphop and rap albums ever.

Lupe, Mos Def, Jedi Mind Tricks (said above)

Blu & Exile (Below the Heavens album)
Immortal Technique (Revolutionary Vol. 1 & 2 album)
Papoose (Law Library, basically a series of songs, I think there are 6 parts now...you need to cop these off mixtapes)
Cannibus (pretty much everything of his, haha)
*Common (Finding Forever album)
*Nas (It Was Written album)
Ice Cube (song: Gangsta Rap Made Me Do It)
Jurassic 5 (their albums)
Wu-Tang Clan (36 Chambers)
Eminem (Marshall Mathers EP & The Eminem Show)
 
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^^^ Good list common sense and nas are in my top ten. Nas lost tapes album is crazy. Commons like water for chocalate lp was dope. Sean Price has two solid albums. I like puns Capital Punishment album the lyrics are crazy. There are lots.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kool Keith aka Dr. Octagon aka Del tha Funkee Homosapien aka Black Elvis.

I love "Summertime" by DJ Jazzy Jeff/Fresh Prince. Man, I used to rock that jam way back in the day when I first got my driver's license.

Adjust the bass, and let the Alpine blast

What a great jam that was!

Edit: I forgot J5. Charlie Tuna's the duck's nuts.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nas, Jay-z, 2pac, Outkast, Common, and maybe Wu-Tang and Dr. Dre. Lupe is the future and carrying the torch for all those guys. Kanye is really mainstream, but he has a lot of potential.

Nas' Illmatic is probably the definer for me. The weird thing is, I didn't start to liking it until I was older. I thought it was overrated until I got a little bit older.
 
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you're basically asking who our favorite rappers are

my favorite rapper of all time is Ras Kass
favorite group since 98 is People Under the Stairs
favorite album of all time is Nas - Illmatic

I'm from LA so I love those LA crews that revolutionized hiphop over here - Freestyle Fellowship, Pharcyde, the rest of the Project Blowdians, plus I also grew up on G-Funk so that sound is nostalgia for me
 
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House of Pain - Runnin up on ya

Digable Planets - It's good to be here

OC - M.U.G.

EPMD - Scratch bring it back

Funkdoobiest - Dedicated

Beatnuts - hit me with that

Beatnuts - Psycho Dwarf

Beatnuts - Yeah you get props

Beatnuts - Props over here

Lords of the Underground - What I'm after

Cannibal Ox - A B-Boy's Alpha

Cannibal Ox - Iron Galaxies

Company Flow - Tragedy of War

Company Flow - 8 Steps to Perfection

Common Sense - Resurrection

Nas - Can't forget about you

Nas - The world is yours

Not even a fraction of ALL the hip hop classics that exist...
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Random collection of classic anthems (and a testament to the genre's versatility):

Big Daddy Kane - Aint No Half Steppin
Black Moon - Who Got Da Props
Black Sheep - Flavor of the Month
Brand Nubians - Slow Down
Busta Rhymes - Whoo-Ha! (Got you All in Check)
Common - Resurrection
Chubb Rock - Treat Em Right
Digital Underground - The Humpty Dance
De La Soul - Stakes is High
Das EFX - Real Hiphop
Eric B & Rakim - Paid in Full (Coldcut Remix is SICK)
Ice Cube - It Was a Good Day
Main Source - Lookin at the Front Door
Method Man & Red Man - How High
Mos Def - Universal Magnetic
Nas - The World is Yours
Nice n' Smooth feat. Gang Starr - DWYCK
Notorious B.I.G. - Who Shot Ya
Outkast - So Fresh So Clean
Pharcyde - Running
Red Man - Time 4 Sum Aksion
Queen Latifah - U.N.I.T.Y
Salt n' Pepa - Push It
Sugar Hill Gang - Rapper's Delight
Slick Rick - La Di Da Di
Snoop & Dre - Deep Cover
Souls of Mischief - '93 till Infinity
Tribe Called Quest - Can I Kick It?
Tribe & LOTNS - Scenario
Young MC - Bust a Move
Wutang Clan - C.R.E.A.M.
 
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