Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Which route has better success of Chargeback

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Credit Card Chargeback...


1. Because I'm not satisfied with the item, it broke. Seller refused to send in a replacement, and refused to refund before I return it. Offered a refund but only after I return it, and only if I package it right. Refund with trix.

2. Because I'm not satisfied with the item, it was mis represented. Both components, pedegree, and other aspects of the item were mis represented. Such as cheaper components than listed, aluminum instead of carbon, etc...

3. Or both?


We talking AMEX here. Seller tried to make it all my fault from the begging and denies everything. However, facts are facts, and my case is right.


Also, should I give them pictures of the bike, and records of my communication with the seller? Or just tell them what's up and stick with it? Let them dig everything by them selfes?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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don't file a charge back for the love of god. when i had my computer company, this was the one thing that kept me up at night. Selling Pc's over the internet is considered a high risk business,a nd if you have a charge back rate of over 2 percent, they shut your account down... fraudulent orders, whatever the case may be. my main job above all was to keep the charge back rate down by any means necessary.

Call the guy.. work it out. Trust me when I say he' knows what's at stake. It's not worth him loosing his merchant account over

send it back to him, I can pretty much assure you that you will get a refund. you aren't dealing with paypal here.

If they close your account you get put on what's called a TMF (Terminated Match File) list. Basically, you are blacklisted from all merchant accounts in the united states.. I can promise you that he isn't going to loose his ability to sell items over your one item.
 

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I talked to seller yesterday, we did not find a solution. In her words, it's all my fault, I am absolutely wrong, and she is right. Fvck that, I dont' need that stress.
 

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Another thing, this is from eBay. I had in mind filing disputes with eBay, PayPal, and chargeback with AMEX.


Should I do all 3, or just AMEX?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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trust me... ebay first, then paypal.. don't take her out of business, because by filing a charge back if too many compile that's what you are doing

just send it back. if you send it back and she doesn't send your money, THEN file a chargeback. I gotta tell ya.. if a guy called me and told me to send him 500 bucks for a pc then he would send the pc back, I'd laugh his ass of the phone
 
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